posted on May, 24 2005 @ 09:27 PM
You have to sit down and think really hard. Is this one girl, that you CAN"T have by the way, as important as the friendships that you would lose if
you tried your luck with this girl? If not, then think that every time you see her, it might help you get over her.
I had a similar experience. My fiance has a friend that I met through him. He's a great guy, and I had a bit of a crush on him. Then one day when we
were all hanging out I realized that if I EVER really let my feeling go further that I would be hurting everyone involved.
Me: Because I love my fiance more than everything in the world.
Fiance: Because that's betrayal from me AND his best friend. Not to mention he would have to see us together.
"The other guy": Because I'd be putting a major strain on his relationship with his best friend.
It's not an ideal situation for any of us, and he's a really great friend.
Good luck, and think about your priorities.