Originally posted by Ritual
You forgot to put in your post that in the 35 years it takes you to save up 1.7 million dollars, granted you dont spend it on the price of life, you
will be 65 years old and almost dead. So wtf is the point.
Well, for one thing, 65 is not "almost dead". For many, it's only 2/3 to 3/4 of their life. If you live till 90, how are you going to pay to live
25 years? Do you want to be some old fart who has to worry when the price of your generic raisin bran goes up 10 cents, because Social Security
doesn't even give you enough to pay rent?
My father is 65 now. I'd hardly consider him "almost dead". He's still working, quite active in his community, goes travelling with my mom around
the world occasionally, and still has time to tip back the scotch with his son.
However, because he did not have the luxury of time when starting his savings, he will have to work until 68 just to get by for another 20-30 years.
He started his savings about 11 years ago, and though it's never too late to start saving, it is too late to become a millionaire from it.
Additionally, with greater and greater advancements in medical technology, if someone keeps themselves fit, their lifespan can be expected to go on
longer and longer down the road. I myself expect to live past 100.
Originally posted by Ritual
So who cares about self empowerment when people are born so stupidly rich they dont need self empowerment and it will take you until your last breath
to say that potentially you could be considered "rich". Do no good when your dead.
(shrug) I don't know what to say to that. Why bother eating, when someone else out there has a gourmet chef to cook for them? Why bother going to
work, because someone has a better job. Ye gods! If I never did something, just because someone else had an easier start then I did, I'd have shot
myself as soon as I learned how to hold a gun.
Originally posted by Ritual
Sorry but I think you can take your self emporment and sit on it.
Oh, I will. I
will. And when I'm finished sitting on my ideals, they will have hatched into a tangible value 100x their worth. Will you be
able to say the same?
Originally posted by Ritual
Me, I will live in the house I grew up in. Im 22 years old. My parents who I live with are 50.
Ahhhh, okay, no further explanation neccesary. I had the same
attitude when I lived off my parents' dime. You simply have not had to worry about fending for yourself yet.
If and when you ever move out on your own, find someone who
you want to spend the rest of your life with, and possibly
start a family, then my words will make more sense.
If you live with them till they die, and remain living in that house, more power to you. Though I'm curious about something...
Originally posted by Ritual
So why should I go out and work? Im not going to. Im not going to take a loan to goto college. Im not going to conform to society, because it isnt
fair. Nor will I break a sweat for the price of living.
I'm curious about a few things, such as, if you do not work, how will you pay for food, utilities, property taxes, car, gas, etc...? Or are they
leaving you enough money to pay for it for the rest of your life?
And if they are leaving you enough to pay for it, I wonder where that money came from? You don't suppose, perhaps, that they
saved it up, do
you? So that they would have something to pass on to their son?
Moving on...
Originally posted by cranialspunge
Time Chance and Circumstance...
(snip)
...many things u say are correct.
but, back to the time,chance circumstance, it is highly unlikely, that both man A and B will be afforded the same chances,(ie:life is different for
everyone)
You read my story, right? How many chances did I get?
Did I grow up in a nice neighborhood with supportive friends? No, instead my friends were sometimes chalk outlines in my front yard. Did I grow up
with a nice allowance each week, for something like taking out the trash? No. In fact, any money I got I had to earn with odd jobs around the
neighborhood, and as soon as I was $15, I got a "real" job that used paychecks. Was it a sweet deal that my mom or dad hooked me up with? No, it was
a crappy job mopping floors, cleaning toilets, and taking out the trash, at McDonald's... worse still, it was the McDonald's right by my school at
the time. Did I later get sent to college with a several boxes of school supplies, new clothes, textbooks, computer, TV, and a meal ticket? No. I paid
for my college through scholarships that I Worked my arse off to get, and when I moved into my dorm, I had a small sea-chest that held all my
belongings in the world. (I still have that sea-chest to this day). I also worked between classes and studying, so that I could do cool things, like
eat. Did I get a sweet job offer from my college experience? No. I got such a bad case of Mononucleosis that I had to take a medical withdrawal (which
in turn, lost me my part time job, my scholarships, etc.) and eventually got myself well enough to go back to work and get an apartment with a friend,
who let his pregnant fiance move in rent-free. They then proceeded to steal everything I owned (except the sea-chest, which was at my girlfriend's at
the time), everything I had managed to accumulate through my hard work, and ran off to somewhere...I'll never know where. I got to be homeless. Did
some kind-hearted soul take me in and give me a home and hot meals? Hell no. I worked. I found a secret place to hide my money. I kept myself clean
(physically and drug-wise), and showed up every single night to start my shift. I worked until I had enough to actually have a roof over my head, but
for about six months, I lived on the street, and the only person who knew was my hiring manager.
No one ever gave me leg up. Ever. The only blessing I ever got over certain other people, is that I am neither mentally nor physically impaired. So
this whole prospect of "bad luck" and "victim of circumstance" really doesn't wash with me unless the circumstances are pretty spectacular. So in
answer to your question, unless someone's chances cause mental or physical impairment, the only thing holding them back is themselves and a defeatist
attitude.
Originally posted by cranialspunge
correct me if i am wrong here,.. but u base your happiness, goal in life , by how much wealth u can accumulate???
No, I'm already happy. I've got an amazing woman with whom to spend the rest of my life with, whom I love deeply. I've got a pretty good connection
with my family, and a great relationship with my father. I'm the one child of theirs that never begged for a single dime. I've got a great sense of
self worth, and a healthy appetite for knowledge for which I have multiple sources to feed from.
None of those things require wealth.
But it would be nice, in addition to happiness, to
also have financial security, for my family and myself, and be able to enjoy certain
luxuries, such as travelling. I'd love to spend the first five years of retirement just living in different villas around Europe, for maybe six
months at a time, to really get to know the culture, take in the sites, the history, the museums. I'd really like to have a good house, on our own
property, that I can pass down to my future kids to argue over.
Originally posted by cranialspunge
"...money will never bring true happiness in life, its just a game some play,
I agree. Money does not bring true happiness. But it sure helps. A lot. I can find happiness in a sunset, or a cloud. But it'd also be nice to find
happiness in providing a nice house, plenty of food, nice clothes, and a quality education for my future children. As for it being a game... (shrug)
So what? Show me something that isn't a game. I like games. I especially like to win them.