posted on Dec, 20 2019 @ 12:41 PM
Well, I have to admit that there are times when I did stupid things. But doing stupid things when you are a young buck was normal. Both guys and
gals all do stupid things on occassion, guys are often more apt to admit they screwed up than women are though. Women will often try to justify their
actions and throw the blame on someone else. Most guys just say they F***** up.
The new movement is more about women thinking they are better because they get an education. They get brainwashed easier. Yes, women are better than
guys at some things, while guys are better at some things than women are. Why does there have to be competition for whom is better? Both sexes think
with their HoHum when they are younger, some stay that way all their life. But the bashing going on now is not infidelity usually, it is that women
can shop around on the net and believe they can do better because options are now out there.
Women are not satisfied with what they need anymore, their wants Trump their needs all the time. That has always been that way with a majority of the
woman, guys, it is less than half that are like that. I bought a new Insulation blower for my business and the wife went out and bought a new Kirby
because I spent thirteen hundred bucks, she thought she should be able to spend nine hundred. That insulation blower made us over a hundred grand in
profits over thirty years, I still have it. Her vaccuum disappointed her after the initial wow effect wore off, it was too heavy to haul up the
steps, she blamed me for building a two story house of course. So she went out and bought a hundred dollar vacuum for upstairs and liked it more.
This is a little gripe of mine, but I understand her, if I would have told her no you can't buy it, I would have been single again.
In marriage you have to give and take, you have to say you like the new recipes she makes to be nice or suffer the consequences. This can go the
other way too, it is a spouse thing. But, after twenty five years of marriage, we had it out, we started to actually talk after an argument, we were
both eating foods we did not like a high percentage of the time when we were at home. She thought I liked something so she made it for me because I
said it was good. I had not been honest in telling her I didn't care for it. She did not like it either and it got to a point where we both were
eating half of our diet in foods that neither of us really liked. I am saying this to try to influence other couples to talk about things and be
honest with each other, that honesty got us talking and we laughed about how much we were doing to please each other when in fact we were torturing
I know that was off topic, but if one couple is helped by our experience and eye opening I will feel happy. We are not the only couple that does
things to please our partner and they really do not like it but said they liked it to please their partner. Things like this dishonesty about simple
things to please someone else can lead to an overwhelming feeling of entrapment and lead to a breakup.
Ok this old coot just had to share something...Bye.