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posted on Nov, 15 2019 @ 02:40 PM
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originally posted by: Sheye
a reply to: Nyiah



Neither I or anyone else gives a flying F what you do or don't say about your own husband. You do not get to walk all over someone else for opening up. That's being an asshole.


Please speak for yourself and not everyone else. She has every right to express her opinions as well, and if that means stepping on a few toes to get the point across, so be it.

I think you need to take a good hard look at your posting history before you go calling others assholes.


I never said I wasn't one, so don't make like I did. Key difference here being I don't kick someone when they're already down and reaching out -- that's crossing a line, even for ATS.




posted on Nov, 15 2019 @ 02:54 PM
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originally posted by: Nyiah

originally posted by: Sheye
a reply to: Nyiah



Neither I or anyone else gives a flying F what you do or don't say about your own husband. You do not get to walk all over someone else for opening up. That's being an asshole.


Please speak for yourself and not everyone else. She has every right to express her opinions as well, and if that means stepping on a few toes to get the point across, so be it.

I think you need to take a good hard look at your posting history before you go calling others assholes.


I never said I wasn't one, so don't make like I did. Key difference here being I don't kick someone when they're already down and reaching out -- that's crossing a line, even for ATS.


Really ? You’ve never kicked someone when they are down ? I beg to differ. You are one of the most belligerent posters when you disagree with someone... even if they are going through difficult times. I even remember you blaming an OP for going through difficult times.

So save the sanctimonious bs Nyiah... we all know how to read.
edit on 15-11-2019 by Sheye because: (no reason given)



posted on Nov, 15 2019 @ 03:04 PM
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originally posted by: Sheye

originally posted by: Nyiah

originally posted by: Sheye
a reply to: Nyiah



Neither I or anyone else gives a flying F what you do or don't say about your own husband. You do not get to walk all over someone else for opening up. That's being an asshole.


Please speak for yourself and not everyone else. She has every right to express her opinions as well, and if that means stepping on a few toes to get the point across, so be it.

I think you need to take a good hard look at your posting history before you go calling others assholes.


I never said I wasn't one, so don't make like I did. Key difference here being I don't kick someone when they're already down and reaching out -- that's crossing a line, even for ATS.


Really ? You’ve never kicked someone when they are down ? I beg to differ. You are one of the most belligerent posters when you disagree with someone... even if they are going through difficult times. I even remember you blaming the OP for going through difficult times.

So save the sanctimonious bs Nyiah... we all know how to read.


There's a big difference between a poster putting an obvious self-destructive behavior out there and not acknowledging it at all, and thus pointing it out once more for them to reflect on, and this crap:

Insulting the OP outright:


Here's a thought... just show your wife this OP and I'll betcha she leaves your sorry whining ass.


Accusing the OP of doing what he very clearly has not done:


I see a man belittling, mocking and ridiculing his wife for his own vain glory.


Effectively telling him he's not worthy of speaking up about something. Sit down and shut up, amirite? Geez, almost hearkens back to eras when it was socially ok to say/insinuate it to women, doesn't it?


No sympathy here. Just pity. And contempt.




I don't care what your wife did or didn't say... I don't care what your wife did or didn't do.


As far as the notion of sanctimony goes, mirrors, Sheye, mirrors. Eyeball one. Edit: No offense meant with it beyond you know how you handled a situation with someone publicly on here, and it wasn't working in your favor.
edit on 11/15/2019 by Nyiah because: (no reason given)



posted on Nov, 15 2019 @ 03:19 PM
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Ok.. I can see a little more clearly why you were hard on Boadecia... she could have chosen her words more wisely, which is something we all can do at times.

I find it sad that the OP can’t discuss his personal life with close family and friends. Those are the ones who see the situation more clearly and can often give better, more fair advice. If he can, and has, he’s only using ATS for sympathy, which I find a bit lame.




As far as the notion of sanctimony goes, mirrors, Sheye, mirrors. Eyeball one. Edit: No offense meant with it beyond you know how you handled a situation with someone publicly on here, and it wasn't working in your favor.


😂 How I handled something publicly that wasn’t working in my favour ? You mean the dog pile of circle jerkers I had to put up with because I dared voice a legit opinion. I have no problems looking in mirrors, I know my intentions.
edit on 15-11-2019 by Sheye because: (no reason given)



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