I have two little girls under 10. They’re amazing and I’m a proud, happy father.
If you’re a father to a daughter out there, you know there’s nothing like your little girl(s)
One of them made a comment about a boy today that she claims “likes her”. I’m sure he does. My little one is adorable. And yes I’m biased.
Show my a father who doesn’t think his daughter is beautiful. BUT!
I know this little pecker wood that thinks he likes my daughter. He’s a whiner. Total cupcake. Low potential from my seat. And yes, I said that
about an eight year old. I did and Own that. NMFP. I can just see it.
My mind goes to - what the # are these parents doing to make their son a whiny little bastard that doesn’t do a thing for himself, cries when he
doesn’t get his way and comes off as dim witted and needing a safe space that includes his butt getting wiped, a vigilante cookie policy (+10 parent
points if you name that reference) and essentially getting what we he wants when he wants it. BS that little waste can “like my daughter”. Not
happenin.
So, with this in mind, I had a talk with my little princess. Side bar - yes, I love my daughters. They are princesses. We instilled discipline in
them beginning at about 18 months each, They have exceptional manners and are kind to all around them. I’d they don’t behave impeccably they will
answer for it - the expectation is being a good, kind and helpful human being. And they are that at least 99% of the time. So for that, I spoil them.
And I love my ladies beyond words, beyond my life and beyond anything I Could comprehend before I had little ladies. My wife comes first, but the
kiddos do really get to me.
Anyway, I told my daughter in a moment of protection/unfiltered adult honesty that the suitor who was coming knocking doesn’t seem very smart.
I’m a #. I said that about an eight year old. It happened and it happened from a good place. Daughter says “no - he’s not. And he cries a lot
and whines at people. I don’t like him.”
With that, I smiled, told her she’s right, and felt peace with the fact my little girl was raised to know her worth, not accept bad behavior and
she’s not ok with whiners.
She’ll be a good human to and for other humans. I’m proud of that.
Now I need parents of little boys to turn them into men I can say yes to.