Stop bitching about your ex!

They attract each other. Leave them to repeat the cycle.

Meanwhile people like us will find life long partners. Or at least work at it with our partners.

Degenerates.

originally posted by: Advantage
a reply to: Bluntone22


Sorry my friend... if he dumps my ass for anything younger or better looking, Im whining about it. Probably from jail.

You sound like one of those ‘hammer and spray paint to his car’ type of women.
Always fun to see those videos on social media.

But...but...but...bitching about your ex is a requirement of divorce. I think it is listed in the legal document somewhere.

originally posted by: Bluntone22
a reply to: dfnj2015

Did you get involved with another one just like the last one?
If so, dont bitch about it..
If not, you are allowed to bitch...

I didn't understand the parameters. I only had one bad. The current one is still working on it.

a reply to: dfnj2015

Everybody is allowed one....haha

a reply to: Bluntone22

My mama always said the first husband is for practice, the second for raising children and the third and final is for rocking on the front porch through your golden years. Mama was and still is a wise old broad!

a reply to: GeauxHomeYoureDrunk

Might want to get a second opinion

originally posted by: Bluntone22
a reply to: GeauxHomeYoureDrunk

Might want to get a second opinion

Don't need one...
Have my rocking partner already!

I don't bitch about my exes. With the first I was young and foolish as was he (less than 3 years), the second not much better but raised our kids while growing apart as a couple and said our goodbyes (22 years). It took me until my later years to find the one to go the final distance- my true soul mate.

I don't have anything to complain about. Everyone in life teaches you things you need to learn. My exes taught me that I deserved better than what I had settled for and because of that I have true happiness now.

originally posted by: and14263
They attract each other. Leave them to repeat the cycle.

Meanwhile people like us will find life long partners. Or at least work at it with our partners.

Degenerates.

Degenerates...really...!

originally posted by: JAGStorm
a reply to: TheGreazel

But atleast i don't have go through the drama of broken relationships or wrecked marriages.

You also might be missing out on true love and deep connection.
I hope your depression gets better. I know a lot of people dealing with that right now and it sucks.

Its ironic my ex and I both have said we both screwed up and we're sorry, but we got married relatively young were horny and addicted to the freedom of early adulthood LOL. It took us 13 years for us to grow up and grow apart, and about that long to reach an understanding LOL but we had two beautiful daughters that actually help us along the way. I had another long term relationship with a great woman after marriage. Now in my mid-fifties, I can appreciate those relationships along with appreciating being single and just occasional dating.

Honestly think I had deeper connections in my earlier relationships before marriage and definitely miss that and know its essential to life long relationships

Guessing we should the old avatars a sex change since it all the rage these days.

Men are from Venus, an Woman are from Mars?

a reply to: Advantage
I so want to have a drink with you some day! LOL I'll bring doritos!


I would rather listen to someone complain about their ex, than listen to some moron talk about how they could have their ex back in a snap.

20 years after the breakup.

Idiots.

a reply to: hopenotfeariswhatweneed

Big time. Glad you agree.

I still miss my ex, but my aim is getting better.

a reply to: Tortuga

I've never had an ex, even though I could of had a many potential ex's or ifs, or children in my short time span.

It funny now, if not enraging looking back at it now in some cases an circumstances. If only I was what they wanted back then...a dick instead of an a hole.

I kinda want to bitch about my ex now just to annoy you...

a reply to: JAGStorm

Thanks for the kind words

a reply to: Bluntone22

Lol 😂
I'm friends with all my ex's, a mixture of amourettes or coup de cœur shall we say 😉
I agree as well, bitchin about ex's, get over it lmao

a reply to: KKLOCO

pretty much yeah