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originally posted by: DictionaryOfExcuses
originally posted by: Onlyyouknow
You do have to realize that no matter how a lady dresses does not invoke an invitation to be violated.
It sounds like you are trying to educate me right now. Is that correct? I am a dismal communicator if I have given you the impression that I don't know this.
...Basically everything is the woman's fault- no personal responsibility for the man to control his desires.
I try not to live or think that way. I don't think I could say much else about it that wouldn't be some sort of virtue-signalling. I have my own "manlies" I need to work out, sure. I'd rather have man-problems than woman-problems, anyhow. I don't see it as a one-sided issue, but I also think it's a shame that social power and standing has been so one-sided in many cultures. It's bogus and bad.
originally posted by: TiredofControlFreaks
originally posted by: Raggedyman
a reply to: TiredofControlFreaks
A person posed a question and you decided to grab your soapbox and, not a step of hesitation, not a stutter, just moan and bitch
Simple question asking for a simple answer, why not just offer up something nice, simple and precise
You are a control freak, you use moaning and bitching to control, sad really
Doesn’t work on me, I don’t need what you are selling, all you can do is try get in my face to control me, just like your post
Happy to break down your post and show you the control freak aspect of it if you like
Otherwise, go save a hippy or something
Well since we are getting down to breaking down quotes:
"Simple questions asking for a simple answer. Why don't you offer up something nice, simple and precise"
Gee looks to me that did in fact ask me for something. Like I said, I give you exactly what you asked for and you are still not happy because "sweetie" didn't pander. I am shocked and amazed.
originally posted by: TiredofControlFreaks
a reply to: Raggedyman
Oh and in case you have any further questions:
I don't usually get called "sweetie".....twice!
And I usually speak my mind whether some man likes it or not. Nobody pays my mortgage but me and I have earned the right. I didn't assume superiority just because of a dick between my legs.
originally posted by: NightSkyeB4Dawn
a reply to: Onlyyouknow
I am going to tell my age. When I was a teen, it was considered slutty to wear a dress or skirt with a hemline above the knees. When the new style came out with the hemlines moving to mid knee cap, my Dad had a melt down. No daughter of his would ever be caught out in public showing her knees. I couldn't wear pants either, except jeans around the homestead.
I loved my Dad and I made sure he never saw me with my hiked up skirt. Just a little wardrobe adjustment. Wear a belt and a long top. Fold the skirt up over the belt when you got to school and take down before you got home. Looking back, I respected my father and it meant a lot to me that he was concerned enough about me to be involved with what I wore. He thought he was protecting me and my reputation, which was a big thing back then.
I didn't always agree with him and we fought from time to time, but back then it was all about respect, towards your elders and for yourself. He died very young so he didn't get the opportunity to see all the madness that followed, but I knew my Dad well enough that he would not have accepted the rising hemlines without a lot of noise and dissatisfaction.
Whether it is culture or the times, traditionally men where considered the heads of the household and the rest of the family deferred to their will. I never had a problem with that because with all his faults and mistakes, my Dad was a good man.
Times have changed and I will admit that I have greatly benefited from the advances that happened with the move to more equality for women. But for all the gains we have made I wouldn't be honest if I didn't admit that I think that we have lost a lot also. I am not so sure that we have made an equal trade. That is just me. I am sure those much younger will not agree.
originally posted by: TiredofControlFreaks
a reply to: [post=24580
We also have one on this thread who wants boys and girls to have the same opportunities in this world and not be treated in a priviledged manner just because they are male.
When a man decides that neither boys are girls should wear a certain fabric because it objects to it because he thinks its looks slutty, then fair is fair.
when a man decides that only the girl should be restricted, then he needs to think about where the boundaries actually are. Is he being fair to girl? What else is he restricting her on? Maybe the boy gets more freedom to play? to be creative? to make decisions? to have more freedoms? Because fundamentally, if only a girl can be considered slutty, then his saying that only his daughter needs to be restricted and controlled
originally posted by: TiredofControlFreaks
a reply to: Gothmog
Well I am shocked and amazed once again in this thread.
A man who thinks that its wrong to treat boys and girls equally! What a novel point of view.
originally posted by: TiredofControlFreaks
a reply to: Gothmog
Well I am shocked and amazed once again in this thread.
A man who thinks that its wrong to treat boys and girls equally! What a novel point of view.
leopard print is associated with sluttiness.