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originally posted by: TiredofControlFreaks
a reply to: DictionaryOfExcuses
If you can think of a young boy wearing a leopard print t-shirt, and you don't think the boy looks cheap and slutty, please rethink your predjuice.
Don't you think that woman are tired of being told what they can wear and can't wear by the men in their lives.
Yes I know that you are talking about a little girl but what you are doing is sexualialising a girl and making her feel ashamed.
Stop it. If men ever want a sexual partner that is truly their equal, then stop making us ashamed.
Tired of Control Freaks (even fathers who think that a young girl could ever be sexual, except in the eyes of a pedo)
originally posted by: CriticalStinker
a reply to: DictionaryOfExcuses
The problem is adults, not kids.
Adults are the only one who associate anythibg further than kids like animals, hence, the like to dress in things resembling animals.
Look at kids pajamas. Half of them are animal like.
originally posted by: PhilbertDezineck
a reply to: DictionaryOfExcuses
Get her a chastity belt and let her wear what she wants.
originally posted by: NightSkyeB4Dawn
a reply to: DictionaryOfExcuses
I think children should not be dressed to look like mini adults. I don't agree with the bra and panty sets they sell in some stores for prepubescent children.
Saying this, I must add that some adults dress way too provocatively and that dressing to titillate is an inappropriate game, especially in today's society. The look but don't let me catch you looking, and the you damn sure better not touch game that some women like to play, makes for problems that add to the problems we already have.
Keeping in mind however that dressing a child modestly will not stop arousal in many pedophiles. For some the more innocent a child looks the more they are drawn to the child. The same with many rapist. Age, looks, race, or mental impairment, are not factors that impeded their desire to control, hurt, or terrorize their victims.
The choice of clothing is purely a personal decision made by you and your wife. I personally believe that dressing to the whims of society leans toward teaching your child into following the crowd. Allowing a child a bit of individually, at a time when they don't care what other people think, may be a step in the right direction, since the parents are the ones that are really concerned about what friends, neighbors, and strangers may think or say.
I am an old broad and I still get a kick out of the shock I see on some faces when I let my freak flag fly.
originally posted by: TiredofControlFreaks
a reply to: DictionaryOfExcuses
Yes you have struck a chord.
Listen and listen carefully.
or someday it will be your daughter with the chord.
When your wife refused to buy her leopard print, did she tell your daughter that you don't like it.
No matter how gently the refusal, it comes down to the same thing. Girls are stupid.
Girls need to be told what to wear because their judgement can't be trusted. She would have felt ashamed.
it wasn't your wife who thought it was too sexual...it was you!!
Talk to her, play with her, bring her fishing hunting, atv righting...whatever and when your relationship is stong...when her self esteem is well established, when she knows her value and worth reflected in her eyes, well leopard print won't matter
OH and take a look at leopard print tshirts for boys
www.google.com... QsAR6BAgGEAE&biw=1600&bih=789
see you are being completely gynolphobic...now is't that sad for a father to feel toward his daughter
originally posted by: GeauxHomeYoureDrunk
a reply to: DictionaryOfExcuses
Pull the stick out and loosen up man!