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Stupid relationship rant

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posted on Jul, 30 2019 @ 01:20 AM
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a reply to: Lumenari

Exactly I hate to be an ashole, but

She felt out that you were a beta, but would give her what she needed and wanted until she could find someone to fill that void she wanted.

Shes manipulative and that guys only a pawn too

But you allowed her to manipulate you , regardless of what you TOLD her, she knew she could come to you for what she needed.

She KNEW that your whole speach about "not being relationship type" was bait, so she played it. and let you give her what she needed

When she found someone else who could do the same but was at hand physically, thats where she went

Sorry bud.

Trustme youll get to a point where the bull# doesnt effect you nearly as much, you just shrug off what would hurt you in the past.

And then you find the woman thats worth it, and its amazing




posted on Jul, 30 2019 @ 03:47 AM
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a reply to: KansasGirl

Lol! No, not married, never was.
I went with my parents, which was the first time in my life I was with them both at the same time. (Only met my dad late in my twenties) A reunion of sorts



posted on Jul, 30 2019 @ 06:13 AM
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a reply to: athousandlives

Sounds like she hooked up with someone new, better off finding someone more mentally stable



posted on Jul, 30 2019 @ 08:56 AM
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a reply to: athousandlives

Just listen to the words:



And if your relationship goes south so can you:



As the song says just find a mountain.



posted on Jul, 30 2019 @ 09:08 AM
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I'd say the two biggest possibilities here are that she either met another guy or she's playing games for your attention. In either case, the best move is to stop bothering with contacting her. If a woman wants to talk to you, she will.

I knew a woman once who was exactly like you described. She'd talk you up for a while and then just ignore you or occasionally respond with 1 word, and then she'd get mad if you didn't give her the attention she was trying to manipulate you into giving her. One day while I was at work she sent me a bunch of text messages indicating she was going to kill herself. She then sent me a text saying she took a bottle of pills and was going to bed, and then she didn't respond... So I sent a cop to her house to make sure she wasn't literally dying. Turned out she was out shopping. The kicker was that her husband was home when the cop showed up to check on her, and he apparently found out at that point that his wife had been running around talking to other guys. She called me in a rage threatening to murder me if I said anything else.

I've been around lots of females, OP. One thing I've learned that's always served me well is not to bother with the ones who can't be bothered to respond to you. If they want to talk to you, they will.
edit on 7/30/2019 by trollz because: (no reason given)



posted on Jul, 30 2019 @ 04:00 PM
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a reply to: dfnj2015

Thanks, appropriate songs! Lol
I particularly liked the second one,



posted on Jul, 30 2019 @ 04:10 PM
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a reply to: trollz

Wow, man that’s a crazy story, thanks for sharing.
I’ve thought about it today, you’re right, I’m done chasing her.
Time to look forward and stop wasting precious time and energy!


Cheers to all that replied so far,
I hadn’t been on ATS for a long time before this week, but I’m glad I stopped by again, some good and wise folk in here,




posted on Jul, 30 2019 @ 06:21 PM
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a reply to: athousandlives

There is someone else...

For sure..

The new fling grew closer the longer you were away, and either she is afraid to tell you, or wants you as a back up plan.



posted on Jul, 30 2019 @ 06:22 PM
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a reply to: athousandlives

The cold turn is so she doesn’t feel as guilty about the new guy..

Is afraid getting close may just be confusing likely..h




posted on Jul, 30 2019 @ 07:41 PM
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originally posted by: athousandlives
a reply to: trollz

Wow, man that’s a crazy story, thanks for sharing.
I’ve thought about it today, you’re right, I’m done chasing her.
Time to look forward and stop wasting precious time and energy!


Cheers to all that replied so far,
I hadn’t been on ATS for a long time before this week, but I’m glad I stopped by again, some good and wise folk in here,



Quick question(s), that I don't think were entirely addressed in the OP: How do you really feel about her? You say it drives you mad that she's ignoring you, which is understandable, but how would you describe your feelings? Interest, crush, love, infatuation. Do you care about her, or do you or have you just want to bone her (not to be intentionally crass), etc.

I'm "friends" with a girl right now I *really* like and care about. We get along, have great times, I've been there for her, but I know she's not ready for anything serious because she's still getting her # together. She has never been bad to me or treated by badly, even if she gets aloof. We go out, take trips, have fun, I'll stay at her house for a couple days and we'll cook and act "domestic," but then she'll go off the radar for a week—and nothing. And then she'll come back around like nothing.

It's women wanting what they need and want at their own pace, basically...I think.



posted on Jul, 31 2019 @ 04:19 PM
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a reply to: Liquesence

I care a lot about her, for her wellbeing and mental stability. I'd really like to remain friends at the least, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't attracted to her.





posted on Jul, 31 2019 @ 04:25 PM
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a reply to: athousandlives

You are quoting my situation!



posted on Jul, 31 2019 @ 04:53 PM
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originally posted by: athousandlives
a reply to: Liquesence

I care a lot about her, for her wellbeing and mental stability. I'd really like to remain friends at the least, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't attracted to her.




Fair enough. Then, as you know, the only thing you can really do is be there for her when (and if) she comes around.




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