a reply to: KansasGirl
i dated this girl and was engaged to her for 5 years and we haven't spoken in a few months.
she called it a date, and she asked me out.
im very tolerant of different paths and people being at a different point in said path(s), i don't care that the dude sat there for a min and spoke to
a friend about whatever but maybe its just me at but at DINNER i don't want to hear about them narcaning someone at a trap house and how many needles
they picked up and they hookers they spoke to.
TIME AND PLACE.
me and the girl were having a serious conversation about the rest of our life and her moving back in with me so to switch to AA/recovery cult-isms and
a million pats on the back i wanted to finish our serious and PRIVATE conversation.
i excused myself and gave my longtime partner the eye that she knew exactly what it ment and expecting him to be gone or leaving when i got back as he
had been there for over 10mins
like a few people already said, i lived in HELL for years and i don't deny my past and openly speak about it but i want t live a normal life and let
dead dogs lie besides having manners and knowing how to act at a hipster/fancy restaurant is pretty basic 'being human' stuff.
childish,hmmm maybe but i just won't be disrespected. by any one, period.
it was rude all around and im sure i hold some of that guilt but i this isn't some random date...
they wanted to catch up and talk about drugs, and i didn't and he was obviously staying.
would you let someone disrespect you? and this was just pure disrespect and thats why im mad and sad and disappointed.
but going back to living my best life everyday, i'm going to be a little down but tomorrow is a new day and i'm glad i saw this and didnt waste a few
more years of my life. it was just a reminder about how awful she could be, that being said she can be amazing and perfect hence being down a bit.
wta: on my phone i blocked her, but like i said i left it unblocked until i got home just incase and she was at a restaurant with an apparent friend.
the blocking is symbolic as she can easily email or facebook me.
damn im getting more and more childish
edit on 14-7-2019 by penroc3 because: (no reason given)