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originally posted by: galaga
originally posted by: watchandwait410
I don't know if I always say the wrong thing or something but I always tend to get people angry with me.
I don't do it on purpose but I am prone to making people angry mostly because I say things at the wrong time or interrupt or something like that.
I just zone out and I have to do or say what I am thinking at that time. I mean I have some self control but it ticks me off when I am snapped at for what I think is not a big deal. It surprises me every time and I feel bad about, for me and the person I made angry. I feel like there is something wrong with me people wise and yes I am semi awkward but I have learned to blend in well. At least I thought but I think I was just scraping by.
Is it just me or am I just crappy in social situations? For sure though I am not a people person.
Is there anyone out there weird like me? I wish I was "normal" but I guess there is a purpose for everything including my weirdness.
You're a narcissist. Just by posting this and bringing attention to yourself proves it.
originally posted by: Lumenari
originally posted by: galaga
originally posted by: watchandwait410
I don't know if I always say the wrong thing or something but I always tend to get people angry with me.
I don't do it on purpose but I am prone to making people angry mostly because I say things at the wrong time or interrupt or something like that.
I just zone out and I have to do or say what I am thinking at that time. I mean I have some self control but it ticks me off when I am snapped at for what I think is not a big deal. It surprises me every time and I feel bad about, for me and the person I made angry. I feel like there is something wrong with me people wise and yes I am semi awkward but I have learned to blend in well. At least I thought but I think I was just scraping by.
Is it just me or am I just crappy in social situations? For sure though I am not a people person.
Is there anyone out there weird like me? I wish I was "normal" but I guess there is a purpose for everything including my weirdness.
You're a narcissist. Just by posting this and bringing attention to yourself proves it.
Online psychotherapy is so cool!!!
Someone was honestly asking why they feel awkward in a social situation... blame themselves and their behavior and ask advice... then just think they need to work on "blending in".
Supersmart buttplug posts that they have to be narcissistic.
Just a win/win here... you shame the OP, feel better about yourself and...
Wait... isn't that narcissism?
originally posted by: galaga
originally posted by: watchandwait410
I don't know if I always say the wrong thing or something but I always tend to get people angry with me.
I don't do it on purpose but I am prone to making people angry mostly because I say things at the wrong time or interrupt or something like that.
I just zone out and I have to do or say what I am thinking at that time. I mean I have some self control but it ticks me off when I am snapped at for what I think is not a big deal. It surprises me every time and I feel bad about, for me and the person I made angry. I feel like there is something wrong with me people wise and yes I am semi awkward but I have learned to blend in well. At least I thought but I think I was just scraping by.
Is it just me or am I just crappy in social situations? For sure though I am not a people person.
Is there anyone out there weird like me? I wish I was "normal" but I guess there is a purpose for everything including my weirdness.
You're a narcissist. Just by posting this and bringing attention to yourself proves it.
originally posted by: watchandwait410
I don't know if I always say the wrong thing or something but I always tend to get people angry with me.
I don't do it on purpose but I am prone to making people angry mostly because I say things at the wrong time or interrupt or something like that.
I just zone out and I have to do or say what I am thinking at that time. I mean I have some self control but it ticks me off when I am snapped at for what I think is not a big deal. It surprises me every time and I feel bad about, for me and the person I made angry. I feel like there is something wrong with me people wise and yes I am semi awkward but I have learned to blend in well. At least I thought but I think I was just scraping by.
Is it just me or am I just crappy in social situations? For sure though I am not a people person.
Is there anyone out there weird like me? I wish I was "normal" but I guess there is a purpose for everything including my weirdness.
originally posted by: madmac5150
originally posted by: nerbot
originally posted by: galaga
You're a narcissist. Just by posting this and bringing attention to yourself proves it.
Only a narcissist would say something like that without knowing the facts or meeting the person.
The O.P. sounds more like an unwilling introvert to me.
I am an unwilling introvert, so I get it.
It's not easy, being an introvert... we have no support groups. We try, but no one ever shows up.
originally posted by: crayzeed
a reply to: watchandwait410
I would surmise with your attitude you have very few friends. NO, it's not alright. If you were an animal you would be shunned from the herd for such behaviour. As a human you should have a modicum of decorum, tact. It's because you've been raised without any feeling for other people. Are you an only child, were you doted on by your parents.
As you've already admitted you can't control it, that's because you haven't been taught to. As I assume you are an adult it is not too late to learn to read other peoples feelings before you answer or not answer.
A exceptionally good way is for everyone to give you a smart slap across the face every time you do it. You'll soon LEARN then. NO it's not alright, it's a sign of complete ignorance for your fellow man.