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RobinB022 passed away on 4/16/19 here at home. ...
I have been crushed by this as we were tied at the hip and never apart. By the time I quit work about a year and a half or two years ago and we finally got a home our whole lives were in bed watching tv or surfing and talking about posts on here and debating as she became bedridden. Then she got to where she couldnt use here right hand and her left hand shook so she could not message and eventually could not answer the phone and one call would wear her out to where she would have to nap.
Prior to me quitting work I had a twelve hour night shift and she kept the same hours as me so we could spend time together on my days off. As a result we had no friends and in the end just had about 12 -15 visits from my siblings here since Christmas.
She was disabled since her late twentys early thirties and had trouble walking for more tha a few hours because she had had seven surgeries on her feet. We met on a chat room called cheeta chat in late 1999. We met in person first of 2000 when she was thirty nine and I was thirty six. Since then we were inseparable. Sure we had some fights when we first got together and went through the growing pains of a relationship just like anyone else , but after a few years neither of us could stand to be apart and we loved and respected each other. She taught me so much about forgiveness and patience and true love. She was an inspiration to me in this last year. Never once did she complain or say why me. She just kept plugging away and never quit fighting even though for so long her entire world revolved around a bed and a bed tray she could reach and learn to use her left hand for everything until it gave up on her to in the last week or so before she passed. She still tried and only let me feed her in the very last few days that she did eat.
I have never made a thread and I am so shattered mentally and physically that I cant. I just know that we both really liked ATS and we would always come here for our news as there are so many bright people who would pick things apart and we felt we would always get a closer truth here than msm. I wanted to know if you would post a thread in her honor and to let everyone know she has passed. She was a true kind and gentle spirit who never met a stranger and never judged anyone on anything but there actions. She also taought me forgiveness and unconditinal love.