posted on Mar, 3 2019 @ 07:38 AM
a reply to: Ultimategamer82
My heart goes out to you. I can hear the struggle in your words, but I can also feel the love. I think your relationship is worth the effort. If
only for your own conscience, knowing you did your best, even if it doesn't work out in the end.
But I'll tell you a secret (as an old married woman...): It's not the good times that make a marriage. Nope. The good times are the gravy. It's
getting through the hard times that make a marriage. It's saying, "Yeah, this sucks, but we're going to do this, and we're going to do it together,
and we're going to be better and stronger when we come out the other side." It is the loyalty and commitment and devotion and honor and strength and
LOVE for each other during the dark times that forges the unbreakable bonds, and which make the good times that much sweeter. Because you did walk
through hell together and conquered your challenges.
And it is so much easier said than done. I know.
I'll leave you with that and let you decide -- as only you can -- how or if it fits into your situation. In any event, good luck and brightest
blessings to you all.