Have you ever heard somebody giving advice to a hopeless romantic and saying -
You must love yourself before anyone else can love you.
Well, I just wanted to post a short rant in my knowledge that day after day, the majority of the whole world proves to be completely Wrong. And not
only are people wrong, but ignorance is rooted so deeply into their consciousness that if truth was to slap them in the face they would still reject
it all cause.
We live in a selfish world. Another quote that apparently contradicts our favored quote is -
Love is not selfish.
Yet everybody is thinking that people must love themselves in order for somebody else to love them. Now I know some of that has truth to it, because
love is care. What they are meaning is that if somebody doesn't care for themselves it is near impossible for somebody that does take care of
themselves to fall in love with them.
Here is the point: there is more truth in people being selfish and loving themselves, than those same people having love for other people, but most
importantly to me, they do not have love for God.
If a person does not love God, but loves themselves, is that really love? No! It is selfishness!
The whole root cause of the stereotype of the attractive woman marrying the wealthy man who is not really attractive and positive is such a
In my perception, and my experience of living in the world with a needy emotional side from being adopted and not loved by my birth mother, I have
spent a lot of time dedicating myself to being a positive person. So if I go out into the world and I see somebody who is impatient, I make a choice
to show others patience that day. Or if I see somebody frown at another person, I make a choice to go give smiles to people, or if I see that somebody
is wanting attention I talk to them and try to cheer them up. I have tried, of being a good person. But that has only distanced me from who I have the
most cherished heart for - women - a person that has learned to care only about themselves IS NOT attracted to a person who does care about others.
Remember these are the little traits of our personality that mark if we are Compatible or not.
But, we are missing an important factor that is horribly wrong in today's world - the people that claim they know God, truly DO NOT know God. The
people that teach others in this world about God - Truly Are LIARS.
I know that this is what human love should be -
A person must love GOD more than they love themselves.
For a person to even understand what Love is - they must love God. God is the very existence that enables a being to understand and experience love.
If a person does not love God they will not open themselves up to the infinite real love coming from the universe which is needed for that expansion
of consciousness, and without the belief in Truth and Love from God they will always be deceived at some level and unable to open up to that level. It
is not the belief in God which enables the love - it is the Real Communication that God Gives to you as beginning a Real relationship with the Real
presence of the Spirit of God.
A person must love themselves as much as they love God.
This is what we already have as mentioned. People do love themselves as much as a person would Love their parent. My parent is God. Their parent is
their mom or dad. My life shows who my parent is as my actions are based around it. Their life shows that the serpent has overcome their conscious
because they do not belief in the ultimate truth. My life is the narrow path, the path of pain because I have rules I am subjected to.
A person must love other people as much as they love themselves.
Tell me, where do you see people loving strangers in this world? All you see when you step outside is people hating each other, and if you are in
somebody's way, they will rush around you and grimace at you like your very existence is just a nuisance to them. That is the truth - love in this
world exists in every day strangers but it is extremely rare and varies some of geographical locations. It takes somebody like me to show people they
are loved to have that love and happiness come out, but in me doing that I have to encounter the people who disrespect me for trying to connect with
them or talk to them, because of the massive amount of hatred they have for other human beings, which comes from the massive amount of dishonesty they
have with themselves from rejecting the Parent that loves them.
Everybody - the birds care about us more than our own species do!!! There is no healing for me!!!
This world is horrible dishonest place with no love. If God told a woman that I am her soulmate, she will ditch me because she does not love God nor
listen to God. If a woman finds that I love her, she will ditch me for someone that does not love her because she is put off by the idea of making me
happy, she wants the excitement of being pursued and chased, and she knows that I am unable to be controlled. If a woman finds that I love God she
will also hate me because of envy. I will continue to suffer because honesty in this world is NOT cherished in society, but instead people always have
false intentions that becomes exposed eventually when it is time to be verified.
So this is why a good honest man is left alone in a wicked dishonest terrible world.