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originally posted by: chiefsmom
I don't see anything wrong with making her try it for a while. Learn it to the point of some understanding of the fundamentals.
I have a problem with the parents, that when a kid has done something for a year or so, and wants to move on to something else, the parent has a meltdown, and/or is basically reliving their dream through their child.
If kids don't get exposed/learn the basics, how will they ever find what they like?
I don't think your going to be a bad parent for having her learn music.
Good for you for even questioning it though.
Seems like your looking out for her best interest.
originally posted by: DISRAELI
a reply to: TinySickTears
Don't you think making it an obligation is more likely to put her off and make her dislike the activity?
originally posted by: JAGStorm
a reply to: TinySickTears
She is still very young, but here's my advice.
Don't ever leave it up to the child.
Put it like this:
Do you want to play the flute or the drums?
originally posted by: Justso
a reply to: TinySickTears
Trust me. This isn't the hard stuff. Don't mean to scare you.
You are entering what is often called "the golden years." Really fun, magical.
At 12/13-the hormones kick in.
originally posted by: randomtangentsrme
If you really insist on her starting. I would suggest piano over violin.
I'm not sure if you've ever heard a 6 year old play twinkle twinkle little star on the violin. If you have not, I hope you never have that thrust upon you.
originally posted by: kelbtalfenek
a reply to: TinySickTears
Gotta say I didn't want to take piano lessons, but I did for like 4 years. It helped me to understand the relationship between different scales and basically formatted my understanding of music.
I say the foot should go down. Pick an instrument or two. Maybe even better make it a parent/child thing.