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posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 03:28 PM
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come on dude

youre saying your sis tried to kill herself by leaving 'combustibles' and a battery on a straightener?

dont take this the wrong way but youre asking so here it is

sis is either just stupid or dropping the ole cry for help.

not trying to be a dick and the above are good things. means she dont really want to do it
and if she is stupid well thats fine. you can be alive and stupid

she aint trying to kill herself with a battery and a straightener.




posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 03:33 PM
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originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou
I know she has been going through her own issues lately and I always want to help guide her through them. At times I tell her to learn to deal with hem herself and that I can't help her. Other times I give her advice based on how I dealt with the similar issues.

But last night when she came over after work she left her straightener on and few combustibles laying perfectly atop it along with two D batteries.
I don't know how to bring this up? I have never dealt with this type of thing and I don't want to make it worse.

Can someone please give some advice on how to address this?



Lol, you claim that you run a business and deal with all this b.s in your life but you don't know how to tell your sis to unplug her crap???

😲


First off your an ass. Second I don’t run a business. I only help keep the wheels on.


I dunno, dude. Coming onto a site like ATS to ask questions about your F'd up sister kind of tells me she's not the only one with an issue. If you can't handle this yourself, seek professional help. Don't expect the denizens of ATS to be your co-dependents in this crap. We're not all going to give you only answers that are "acceptable" to your fine sensibilities. We're not shrinks.



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 03:33 PM
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I get the feeling you are afraid to approach her. Afraid she will not respond well to any type of conversation about her behavior. The concern over the straightener is simply a safety issue but unlikely for her to see it that way. She'll probably say you are picking on her and really she can't take any more criticism of herself as she has no self esteem left and you already know this.

Forget the safety issue. She won't get it. She obviously needs more help than you can give her. Maybe meet with a mental health professional for suggestions. Don't do this by yourself. Tread gently, carefully, thoughtfully.

More than likely she needs to be in a health facility. Perhaps, with the aid of your parents, you can persuade her to meet with a specialist who can talk to her in a caring manner to check herself in before she hurts herself, you or maybe others.

Timing is everything.
edit on 29-12-2018 by Justso because: (no reason given)



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 03:35 PM
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originally posted by: TinySickTears
come on dude

youre saying your sis tried to kill herself by leaving 'combustibles' and a battery on a straightener?

dont take this the wrong way but youre asking so here it is

sis is either just stupid or dropping the ole cry for help.

not trying to be a dick and the above are good things. means she dont really want to do it
and if she is stupid well thats fine. you can be alive and stupid

she aint trying to kill herself with a battery and a straightener.



I totally agree with you man. And yes she is very stupid.
She said it was one of my kitties which is very possible but I don’t buy it.
She did bring up some grievances though so we talked.
In all reality she needs to grow up a bit. Her issues are childish imo.



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 03:39 PM
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originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: TinySickTears
come on dude

youre saying your sis tried to kill herself by leaving 'combustibles' and a battery on a straightener?

dont take this the wrong way but youre asking so here it is

sis is either just stupid or dropping the ole cry for help.

not trying to be a dick and the above are good things. means she dont really want to do it
and if she is stupid well thats fine. you can be alive and stupid

she aint trying to kill herself with a battery and a straightener.



I totally agree with you man. And yes she is very stupid.
She said it was one of my kitties which is very possible but I don’t buy it.
She did bring up some grievances though so we talked.
In all reality she needs to grow up a bit. Her issues are childish imo.



I think you are just making up stories.

Why would you bash your own family on a conspiracy site, talk about childish.

SMDH



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 03:40 PM
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originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: TinySickTears
come on dude

youre saying your sis tried to kill herself by leaving 'combustibles' and a battery on a straightener?

dont take this the wrong way but youre asking so here it is

sis is either just stupid or dropping the ole cry for help.

not trying to be a dick and the above are good things. means she dont really want to do it
and if she is stupid well thats fine. you can be alive and stupid

she aint trying to kill herself with a battery and a straightener.



I totally agree with you man. And yes she is very stupid.
She said it was one of my kitties which is very possible but I don’t buy it.
She did bring up some grievances though so we talked.
In all reality she needs to grow up a bit. Her issues are childish imo.



I think you are just making up stories.

Why would you bash your own family on a conspiracy site, talk about childish.

SMDH



Ya well I think you are just an ass.



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 03:43 PM
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originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: TinySickTears
come on dude

youre saying your sis tried to kill herself by leaving 'combustibles' and a battery on a straightener?

dont take this the wrong way but youre asking so here it is

sis is either just stupid or dropping the ole cry for help.

not trying to be a dick and the above are good things. means she dont really want to do it
and if she is stupid well thats fine. you can be alive and stupid

she aint trying to kill herself with a battery and a straightener.



I totally agree with you man. And yes she is very stupid.
She said it was one of my kitties which is very possible but I don’t buy it.
She did bring up some grievances though so we talked.
In all reality she needs to grow up a bit. Her issues are childish imo.



I think you are just making up stories.

Why would you bash your own family on a conspiracy site, talk about childish.

SMDH



Ya well I think you are just an ass.


At least you did not deny that you made up the story.



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 03:46 PM
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originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: TinySickTears
come on dude

youre saying your sis tried to kill herself by leaving 'combustibles' and a battery on a straightener?

dont take this the wrong way but youre asking so here it is

sis is either just stupid or dropping the ole cry for help.

not trying to be a dick and the above are good things. means she dont really want to do it
and if she is stupid well thats fine. you can be alive and stupid

she aint trying to kill herself with a battery and a straightener.



I totally agree with you man. And yes she is very stupid.
She said it was one of my kitties which is very possible but I don’t buy it.
She did bring up some grievances though so we talked.
In all reality she needs to grow up a bit. Her issues are childish imo.



I think you are just making up stories.

Why would you bash your own family on a conspiracy site, talk about childish.

SMDH



Ya well I think you are just an ass.


At least you did not deny that you made up the story.


What purpose would it be to deny it?
I don’t care if you believe it or don’t.
Btw when I said I don’t run a business I forgot that I actually do run one.
If you want new tiles then I am your man. I could always some funds for retirement.



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 03:51 PM
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originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: TinySickTears
come on dude

youre saying your sis tried to kill herself by leaving 'combustibles' and a battery on a straightener?

dont take this the wrong way but youre asking so here it is

sis is either just stupid or dropping the ole cry for help.

not trying to be a dick and the above are good things. means she dont really want to do it
and if she is stupid well thats fine. you can be alive and stupid

she aint trying to kill herself with a battery and a straightener.



I totally agree with you man. And yes she is very stupid.
She said it was one of my kitties which is very possible but I don’t buy it.
She did bring up some grievances though so we talked.
In all reality she needs to grow up a bit. Her issues are childish imo.



I think you are just making up stories.

Why would you bash your own family on a conspiracy site, talk about childish.

SMDH



Ya well I think you are just an ass.


At least you did not deny that you made up the story.


What purpose would it be to deny it?
I don’t care if you believe it or don’t.
Btw when I said I don’t run a business I forgot that I actually do run one.
If you want new tiles then I am your man. I could always some funds for retirement.



So, another lie.



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 03:52 PM
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originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: TinySickTears
come on dude

youre saying your sis tried to kill herself by leaving 'combustibles' and a battery on a straightener?

dont take this the wrong way but youre asking so here it is

sis is either just stupid or dropping the ole cry for help.

not trying to be a dick and the above are good things. means she dont really want to do it
and if she is stupid well thats fine. you can be alive and stupid

she aint trying to kill herself with a battery and a straightener.



I totally agree with you man. And yes she is very stupid.
She said it was one of my kitties which is very possible but I don’t buy it.
She did bring up some grievances though so we talked.
In all reality she needs to grow up a bit. Her issues are childish imo.



I think you are just making up stories.

Why would you bash your own family on a conspiracy site, talk about childish.

SMDH



Ya well I think you are just an ass.


At least you did not deny that you made up the story.


What purpose would it be to deny it?
I don’t care if you believe it or don’t.
Btw when I said I don’t run a business I forgot that I actually do run one.
If you want new tiles then I am your man. I could always some funds for retirement.



So, another lie.


Ya know dude....I hope you get diarrhea today!

And that your toilet gets clogged...



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 03:54 PM
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originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: TinySickTears
come on dude

youre saying your sis tried to kill herself by leaving 'combustibles' and a battery on a straightener?

dont take this the wrong way but youre asking so here it is

sis is either just stupid or dropping the ole cry for help.

not trying to be a dick and the above are good things. means she dont really want to do it
and if she is stupid well thats fine. you can be alive and stupid

she aint trying to kill herself with a battery and a straightener.



I totally agree with you man. And yes she is very stupid.
She said it was one of my kitties which is very possible but I don’t buy it.
She did bring up some grievances though so we talked.
In all reality she needs to grow up a bit. Her issues are childish imo.



I think you are just making up stories.

Why would you bash your own family on a conspiracy site, talk about childish.

SMDH



Ya well I think you are just an ass.


At least you did not deny that you made up the story.


What purpose would it be to deny it?
I don’t care if you believe it or don’t.
Btw when I said I don’t run a business I forgot that I actually do run one.
If you want new tiles then I am your man. I could always some funds for retirement.



So, another lie.


Ya know dude....I hope you get diarrhea today!

And that your toilet gets clogged...



Lol and you say your sis is childish.
🤣



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 03:57 PM
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originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: TinySickTears
come on dude

youre saying your sis tried to kill herself by leaving 'combustibles' and a battery on a straightener?

dont take this the wrong way but youre asking so here it is

sis is either just stupid or dropping the ole cry for help.

not trying to be a dick and the above are good things. means she dont really want to do it
and if she is stupid well thats fine. you can be alive and stupid

she aint trying to kill herself with a battery and a straightener.



I totally agree with you man. And yes she is very stupid.
She said it was one of my kitties which is very possible but I don’t buy it.
She did bring up some grievances though so we talked.
In all reality she needs to grow up a bit. Her issues are childish imo.



I think you are just making up stories.

Why would you bash your own family on a conspiracy site, talk about childish.

SMDH



Ya well I think you are just an ass.


At least you did not deny that you made up the story.


What purpose would it be to deny it?
I don’t care if you believe it or don’t.
Btw when I said I don’t run a business I forgot that I actually do run one.
If you want new tiles then I am your man. I could always some funds for retirement.



So, another lie.


Ya know dude....I hope you get diarrhea today!

And that your toilet gets clogged...



Lol and you say your sis is childish.
🤣


Never claimed not to be childish. Sometimes I walk my dog in short shorts just to annoy my neighbors.

Also now that I am “triggered” I think I’ll leave my Christmas lights on all year!

How ya like them apples?

edit on 2/19/2013 by Allaroundyou because: (no reason given)



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 04:01 PM
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originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: TinySickTears
come on dude

youre saying your sis tried to kill herself by leaving 'combustibles' and a battery on a straightener?

dont take this the wrong way but youre asking so here it is

sis is either just stupid or dropping the ole cry for help.

not trying to be a dick and the above are good things. means she dont really want to do it
and if she is stupid well thats fine. you can be alive and stupid

she aint trying to kill herself with a battery and a straightener.



I totally agree with you man. And yes she is very stupid.
She said it was one of my kitties which is very possible but I don’t buy it.
She did bring up some grievances though so we talked.
In all reality she needs to grow up a bit. Her issues are childish imo.



I think you are just making up stories.

Why would you bash your own family on a conspiracy site, talk about childish.

SMDH



Ya well I think you are just an ass.


At least you did not deny that you made up the story.


What purpose would it be to deny it?
I don’t care if you believe it or don’t.
Btw when I said I don’t run a business I forgot that I actually do run one.
If you want new tiles then I am your man. I could always some funds for retirement.



So, another lie.


Ya know dude....I hope you get diarrhea today!

And that your toilet gets clogged...



Lol and you say your sis is childish.
🤣


Never claimed not to be childish. Sometimes I walk my dog in short shorts just to annoy my neighbors.

Also now that I am “triggered” I think I’ll leave my Christmas lights on all year!

How ya like them apples?



Go for it, but then don't complain when your sis leaves the iron on all year.


I love apples, especially Ambrosia.



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 04:06 PM
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originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: TinySickTears
come on dude

youre saying your sis tried to kill herself by leaving 'combustibles' and a battery on a straightener?

dont take this the wrong way but youre asking so here it is

sis is either just stupid or dropping the ole cry for help.

not trying to be a dick and the above are good things. means she dont really want to do it
and if she is stupid well thats fine. you can be alive and stupid

she aint trying to kill herself with a battery and a straightener.



I totally agree with you man. And yes she is very stupid.
She said it was one of my kitties which is very possible but I don’t buy it.
She did bring up some grievances though so we talked.
In all reality she needs to grow up a bit. Her issues are childish imo.



I think you are just making up stories.

Why would you bash your own family on a conspiracy site, talk about childish.

SMDH



Ya well I think you are just an ass.


At least you did not deny that you made up the story.


What purpose would it be to deny it?
I don’t care if you believe it or don’t.
Btw when I said I don’t run a business I forgot that I actually do run one.
If you want new tiles then I am your man. I could always some funds for retirement.



So, another lie.


Ya know dude....I hope you get diarrhea today!

And that your toilet gets clogged...



Lol and you say your sis is childish.
🤣


Never claimed not to be childish. Sometimes I walk my dog in short shorts just to annoy my neighbors.

Also now that I am “triggered” I think I’ll leave my Christmas lights on all year!

How ya like them apples?



Go for it, but then don't complain when your sis leaves the iron on all year.


I love apples, especially Ambrosia.


Those are the worst apples..... OK that actually was a lie. I love Ambrosia apples.

But I wouldn’t hesitate to throw one at your ear. Ass



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 04:09 PM
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originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: TinySickTears
come on dude

youre saying your sis tried to kill herself by leaving 'combustibles' and a battery on a straightener?

dont take this the wrong way but youre asking so here it is

sis is either just stupid or dropping the ole cry for help.

not trying to be a dick and the above are good things. means she dont really want to do it
and if she is stupid well thats fine. you can be alive and stupid

she aint trying to kill herself with a battery and a straightener.



I totally agree with you man. And yes she is very stupid.
She said it was one of my kitties which is very possible but I don’t buy it.
She did bring up some grievances though so we talked.
In all reality she needs to grow up a bit. Her issues are childish imo.



I think you are just making up stories.

Why would you bash your own family on a conspiracy site, talk about childish.

SMDH



Ya well I think you are just an ass.


At least you did not deny that you made up the story.


What purpose would it be to deny it?
I don’t care if you believe it or don’t.
Btw when I said I don’t run a business I forgot that I actually do run one.
If you want new tiles then I am your man. I could always some funds for retirement.



So, another lie.


Ya know dude....I hope you get diarrhea today!

And that your toilet gets clogged...



Lol and you say your sis is childish.
🤣


Never claimed not to be childish. Sometimes I walk my dog in short shorts just to annoy my neighbors.

Also now that I am “triggered” I think I’ll leave my Christmas lights on all year!

How ya like them apples?



Go for it, but then don't complain when your sis leaves the iron on all year.


I love apples, especially Ambrosia.


Those are the worst apples..... OK that actually was a lie. I love Ambrosia apples.

But I wouldn’t hesitate to throw one at your ear. Ass



Oh no.

Soy drinking spandex wearing boy, I'm so scurred.😱



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 04:13 PM
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originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: Muninn

originally posted by: Allaroundyou

originally posted by: TinySickTears
come on dude

youre saying your sis tried to kill herself by leaving 'combustibles' and a battery on a straightener?

dont take this the wrong way but youre asking so here it is

sis is either just stupid or dropping the ole cry for help.

not trying to be a dick and the above are good things. means she dont really want to do it
and if she is stupid well thats fine. you can be alive and stupid

she aint trying to kill herself with a battery and a straightener.



I totally agree with you man. And yes she is very stupid.
She said it was one of my kitties which is very possible but I don’t buy it.
She did bring up some grievances though so we talked.
In all reality she needs to grow up a bit. Her issues are childish imo.



I think you are just making up stories.

Why would you bash your own family on a conspiracy site, talk about childish.

SMDH



Ya well I think you are just an ass.


At least you did not deny that you made up the story.


What purpose would it be to deny it?
I don’t care if you believe it or don’t.
Btw when I said I don’t run a business I forgot that I actually do run one.
If you want new tiles then I am your man. I could always some funds for retirement.



So, another lie.


Ya know dude....I hope you get diarrhea today!

And that your toilet gets clogged...



Lol and you say your sis is childish.
🤣


Never claimed not to be childish. Sometimes I walk my dog in short shorts just to annoy my neighbors.

Also now that I am “triggered” I think I’ll leave my Christmas lights on all year!

How ya like them apples?



Go for it, but then don't complain when your sis leaves the iron on all year.


I love apples, especially Ambrosia.


Those are the worst apples..... OK that actually was a lie. I love Ambrosia apples.

But I wouldn’t hesitate to throw one at your ear. Ass



Oh no.

Soy drinking spandex wearing boy, I'm so scurred.😱


As you should be. I have good aim man!

And not cool saying I drink soy.....I am no hippie dude.



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 04:21 PM
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Is she the type that doesn't handle constructive criticism well?

Only reason I can think of as to why you'd be scared to bring up the issue of a straightener, hair products, and two D batteries being in close proximity.

If its your place, you make the rules. Fairly simple.



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 04:38 PM
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It seems to me it was done on purpose. Combustibles placed on top of a hair straightener with some d batteries on top. She wanted something to burn and catch fire. Self destructive. Or trying to harm you?

Yeah, you need to have a long talk with her. See what is really going on with her.

Good luck,




posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 05:14 PM
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All due respect, man, but if it were me I'd tell her straight-up she left her S# plugged in and it could have burnt MY house down! If she wants to fire bomb her own crib, fine, but don't be comin' over to MY place to burn ME out!

And, DON'T FORGET IT!

P.S. - Then I'd have probably thrown her S# up on the roof after I found it too!

P.S.S. - Don't take my comments too personally, one of my sisters is an idiot too! Wouldn't hurt my feelings if I had to give her the ol' airplane-spin body-slam a couple times either.



posted on Dec, 29 2018 @ 05:43 PM
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a reply to: Allaroundyou

I have a similar issue with my mom. She likes to leave lit candles around all kinds of things that can burn.
And then go to sleep....

Nothing I have done has made her stop.

Sometimes people just have to make a big horrible mistake that changes their life before they will learn.

But of course I don't want my mom to burn to death so I make sure to blow those candles out whenever I see them unattended.
edit on 29-12-2018 by scraedtosleep because: (no reason given)



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