posted on Dec, 25 2018 @ 10:01 PM
originally posted by: watchitburn
Maybe I'm getting old, because I have no idea what any of this madness is.
I've seen articles about the female side of things from other places. Basically, a lot of women bought into the idea that they shouldn't settle down
and have kids, that they should focus on "finding themselves" and "having it all in their career" before they worried about husband and family because
if they settled for husband and family, then they'd never make anything of themselves.
The problem with putting it off is that you miss out. For women, your best years, your most desirable years as far as men are concerned are your 20s
and that's when you're at your most fertile too.
So if you spend those years in an empty series of hookups and brush men off and treat them like second class sex toys like women have been told they
should, like they've been told men more or less treat them, then they risk missing out on ever having a husband and family because while they're
concentrating on career, they're wasting their best years for husband hunting and their best years for starting a family.
If you want those things at all, your window is limited by biology, and when you turn around at 30, a man is just getting going on his desirability.
He has a much longer shelf life than any woman ever will thanks to money and power and biology. No man cares about your career, sweetheart, and you
aren't as cute or as fertile as you were 10 years ago, either.