posted on Nov, 10 2018 @ 06:40 PM
originally posted by: TerryMcGuire
Could it be as simple as you are not a “nice looking specimen” ?
She probably doesn't want to date a man who refers to women as "specimen."
Or yeah, he's not a good looking enough specimen.
Or: so you don't know this "specimen," right? So you asked a perfect stranger to "hang out." Did you ask it that way? "Hang out?" Because if you
did, there's part of your problem.
Think about it from the specime's point of view. Some total stranger comes in to buy beer and asks her if she wants to hang out.
Creepy! Just creepy, man.
Ask her some questions about herself. Maybe go through the checkout line a few more times on different days, and then ask her is she wants to get
coffee sometime. That's the VERY least you should have done. The way you did it was totally creepy.
I don't know why they banned you, unless they have a policy where they can ban creeps. That would be my guess. Creep ban.
ETA: like seriously, WHAT made you think she would say yes?? WHY the hell would a girl want to go and "hang out" with a total stranger after she gets
off of work? Why would she want to, even on her day off? Creep creepity creep creep.
edit on 10-11-2018 by KansasGirl because: (no reason