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Pornography: the not so new drug for the masses.

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posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 06:40 AM
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originally posted by: ALSTA
a reply to: Nyiah

Thats fine if both partners have a good/high sex drive but its when one is porn conditioned and the other is the boy/girl next door that the issues begin.


So I guess there is a problem with "boy/girl next door type? You mean the one with a genuine unadulterated sex drive that doesn't have to up the ante each time. By the way , I love the term "porn conditioned"...Maybe we should start calling addicts "drug conditioned".. it sort of takes the sting out. That way no body gets their ego ruffled.

Maybe they could add a box on the dating site apps. 'Are you porn conditioned'? It would save a lot of people a lot of grief.
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posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 06:47 AM
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a reply to: pointessa

I think you've completely misunderstood my angle I'm not saying anythings wrong with either side but rather that the opposing sides can't necessarily find common ground due to porn conditioning.
Drug conditioned although you were being sarcastic actually is a good description hence why they keep uping the dosage/ante.
Take a chill pill your scaring me.
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And so you know I'd much rather have the girl next door type but that doesn't mean i want her to act like a porn star.
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posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 06:50 AM
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originally posted by: ALSTA
a reply to: pointessa

I think you've completely misunderstood my angle I'm not saying anythings wrong with either side but rather that the opposing sides can't necessarily find common ground due to porn conditioning.
Drug conditioned although you were being sarcastic actually is a good description hence why they keep uping the dosage/ante.
Take a chill pill your scaring me.


Sorry, Alsta...didn't mean to come off that way. I obviously have some issues with porn addiction, personal issues. I did take your post as a jab at me personally, for sharing my story about porn addiction. I think you are right, once I understand what you are saying.



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 07:00 AM
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a reply to: pointessa

No sweat, i fully understand the emotional effect of being on the recieving end of bad behaviour. But more importantly thankyou for being decent enough to apologize and explain why.
That bloke must be deeply regreting loosing such a great soul and disrespecting you. Clearly his loss.
I always post from a neutral perspective and try to be sincere.
Cheers hope your next fella gives you the love and respect you deserve and expect from commitment.



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 07:03 AM
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originally posted by: ALSTA
And so you know I'd much rather have the girl next door type but that doesn't mean i want her to act like a porn star.

Well if young girls are getting sex ed from porn there will be no 'girl next door type' that doesn't act like a porn star. That's what comes from growing up in a pornified culture.



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 07:09 AM
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a reply to: pointessa

Thank you for your reply. I am sorry to hear that this filth has ruined your marriage.
Does your husband know that it was porn that ruined it? Would he consider attempting to give it up?



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 07:14 AM
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originally posted by: ALSTA
a reply to: pointessa

No sweat, i fully understand the emotional effect of being on the recieving end of bad behaviour. But more importantly thankyou for being decent enough to apologize and explain why.
That bloke must be deeply regreting loosing such a great soul and disrespecting you. Clearly his loss.
I always post from a neutral perspective and try to be sincere.
Cheers hope your next fella gives you the love and respect you deserve and expect from commitment.


Thank you, now I really feel like a jerk once I see how decent you are. I do have difficulty sometimes telling if someone is sincere or being sarcastic on this forum.



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 07:23 AM
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originally posted by: Itisnowagain
a reply to: pointessa

Thank you for your reply. I am sorry to hear that this filth has ruined your marriage.
Does your husband know that it was porn that ruined it? Would he consider attempting to give it up?


Yes, he knows and no, he would never give it up or even try to curtail it. He just made more of an attempt to not do it where I could see him. And he put a lot of effort into that.



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 07:30 AM
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originally posted by: pointessa
He just made more of an attempt to not do it where I could see him. And he put a lot of effort into that.

I don't know whether to laugh or cry.



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 07:32 AM
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a reply to: Itisnowagain

How little faith you have in humanity understandably to some degree, but sex ed from porn is hardly the only sexual school out there and i think correctly raised individuals know the extreme nature of the majority of the clips. But not all clips are extreme. Are they?....
People have a choice, that little voice in their head that says i shouldn't do this is ignored ie druggies that say i wanna stop but rarely do or the husband that wants to do all manner of porn stuff that he knows he shouldn't but ignores that little voice for his own gratification only to be apologetic next day. Or the young adolescents who wanna act like porn stars but are afraid and nervous and its a over in a heartbeat anyhow. People know right from wrong initially but its the repeated ignorance of that little voice that eventually creates pathway rerouting thus brain change thus addiction.
I have no sympathy for any addicts of anything. And thats coming from an x addict of both porn and drugs from way back.
The brain pathways may change and take you down a different decision making priority path but with a little bit of self evaluation they will re route back to their genetic place of residance.
Only those who refuse that little voice become truely biologically altered and therefore a slave to the addiction. Much to the great heartbreak of the few still trying to love them.



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 07:33 AM
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I have learned many things from porn, chief among them is not to share a drinking receptacle with two certain young ladies.



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 07:38 AM
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a reply to: ALSTA

Did you watch the video I posted?



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 07:38 AM
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a reply to: Itisnowagain


I did, it was boring, it didn't have any sex.



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 07:39 AM
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originally posted by: Itisnowagain

originally posted by: pointessa
He just made more of an attempt to not do it where I could see him. And he put a lot of effort into that.

I don't know whether to laugh or cry.


Sorry wrong post.,,
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posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 07:40 AM
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a reply to: AugustusMasonicus

Did anyone ask you?



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 07:40 AM
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originally posted by: Itisnowagain
Did anyone ask you?


Yes, Riley Steele.



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 07:41 AM
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originally posted by: ALSTA
a reply to: Itisnowagain

How little faith you have in humanity understandably to some degree, but sex ed from porn is hardly the only sexual school out there and i think correctly raised individuals know the extreme nature of the majority of the clips. But not all clips are extreme. Are they?....
People have a choice, that little voice in their head that says i shouldn't do this is ignored ie druggies that say i wanna stop but rarely do or the husband that wants to do all manner of porn stuff that he knows he shouldn't but ignores that little voice for his own gratification only to be apologetic next day. Or the young adolescents who wanna act like porn stars but are afraid and nervous and its a over in a heartbeat anyhow. People know right from wrong initially but its the repeated ignorance of that little voice that eventually creates pathway rerouting thus brain change thus addiction.
I have no sympathy for any addicts of anything. And thats coming from an x addict of both porn and drugs from way back.
The brain pathways may change and take you down a different decision making priority path but with a little bit of self evaluation they will re route back to their genetic place of residance.
Only those who refuse that little voice become truely biologically altered and therefore a slave to the addiction. Much to the great heartbreak of the few still trying to love them.






Wow!!! Lot's of wisdom there. Although I am not or never have been a porn addict, I have been addicted in the past and you are absolutely right. There is that little voice and eventually you learn to ignore it at your own peril. It has taken me a lot of time to get that back and now I value it more than anything.
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posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 08:28 AM
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What I learned from watching porn rarely was that they all need to take acting lessons.



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 08:31 AM
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a reply to: InTheLight


You watch porn for acting? Did you also read Hustler for the articles?



posted on Oct, 26 2018 @ 08:33 AM
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originally posted by: AugustusMasonicus
a reply to: InTheLight


"Did you also read Hustler for the articles?"


Yes. Of course.
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