It Seems To Appear That I Have A Son

Street-wise handsome bastard.
Not sure how to handle this but I can't deny.
He knew the answer to all the right questions.
He is fruit of my loin.
I hugged him and kissed him on the cheek.
That is my boy!
18 and funky fresh. His name is Mel.
We run this neck of the woods.
Seriously, this is my spawn.

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So,,,, yay?
Throw us a bone here..

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Congratulations. What a gift, however late or the manner of the arrival.

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Congrats!

Papa.


Now you have to get baggy jeans and groan when you sit down.

originally posted by: DBCowboy
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Congrats!

Papa.


Now you have to get baggy jeans and groan when you sit down.

I've got that part nailed.
We're going fishing tomorrow.
I am in love with this little bastard who I didn't know existed.

Dang, he got impeccable timing too: Popped up at 18 no child support!

Seriously, that is too cool. Bet y'all are going to be great friends.

One random sperm in one random cha-cha.
Presto!!
I have a cool ass son.
Mom has been dead for about as long as he's been born.
Just for the record.

Wow man! Congrats you seem stoked about it which is great!
I am sure he is just as excited to have a father as you are to have a son.

Wish you two many great times moving forward.

It’s like what Bob Ross always said, just a happy little accident.

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It's great you've found each other.
I have two sons...greatest blessings in my life.

originally posted by: skunkape23

originally posted by: DBCowboy
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Congrats!

Papa.


Now you have to get baggy jeans and groan when you sit down.

I've got that part nailed.
We're going fishing tomorrow.
I am in love with this little bastard who I didn't know existed.

originally posted by: skunkape23

originally posted by: DBCowboy
a reply to: skunkape23

Congrats!

Papa.


Now you have to get baggy jeans and groan when you sit down.

I've got that part nailed.
We're going fishing tomorrow.
I am in love with this little bastard who I didn't know existed.

That's so wonderful! I'm happy for both of you. Now, do the paperwork and make it legal. You swear, mama swears,
sign and done. It will mean a lot to him.

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He might be a cia plant. You can never be too careful.

sounds great, so when things all go pear shaped between you and it will, hang on to him with both hands
Get some counselling, learn to be a friend and not a dad, probably hasnt had a real one before

It can/will get difficult so be the adult in this relationship


Being a dad is the best thing but its no cakewalk

Congrats !

Waiting for that to happen to me one day, I sowed many oats in my younger years.

originally posted by: skunkape23
Street-wise handsome bastard.
Not sure how to handle this but I can't deny.
He knew the answer to all the right questions.
He is fruit of my loin.
I hugged him and kissed him on the cheek.
That is my boy!
18 and funky fresh. His name is Mel.
We run this neck of the woods.
Seriously, this is my spawn.

How lucky for you to have found out in time to have a relationship.

I found out much older in life that I had the wrong father. I eventually found him and he died when I was 9. Came to see me when a toddler in Guatemala and had a pic of us all these years. I often wonder what it may have been like to have him in my life.

Make the most of your time with him. It will create memories that need to last a lifetime.

Congratulations.

So nice that you enjoy his company. In a short time he will be finding out you are a little weird and either cling to you or run for the hills never to be seen again.

Congratulations! You can now share a cigar together.

Seriously, have fun. Special times.

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Congratulations man that is so exciting and there is so much time left to form a relationship! I'm so glad he sought you out!

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Wow, a round of blue cigars to celebrate!
How did you two find each other?
Which of your physical traits do you recognize in him?
Any mannerisms or interests or talents he seems to have inherited from you?
(I'm fascinated by surprises in the nature/nurture realm.)

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Congratulations! Too many people would have run like hell if they got news like this. Too bad he's too old to embarrass with Dad jokes though.

Slightly related, I sincerely thank you from the bottom of my heart for using the phrase "funky fresh." My 13 year old is my baby and my world but there's damn near nothing that can make us both laugh like we do when I embarrass the hell out of her. Now I just need to think of an excuse to scream something's funky fresh out the window at her while she's waiting to be picked up with her friends after school.