a reply to: DrogoTheNorman
I'll give you a couple angles based on an extremely vivid dream I had when I was younger (Can't remember if I posted it here or on my old haunts at
The short of the dream was this: I met a girl in said dream that was familiar and yet unfamiliar at the same time: I didn't "know" her personally, but
the feeling I got was almost as if she were family or an extremely close friend (I was semi-lucid, so my recall is clear for most of this). I also got
a bit of a melancholic vibe off of her (it was as if I knew she was dead, or not here).
She was the epitome of beauty itself, and still technically is. What I found curious is that how she acted in the dream, almost seemed to indicate she
I was dreaming. We talked for a while, and I asked for her number: She gave it to me, which I wrote on a piece of paper. She also gave me
her name Kaleigha (and put extra emphasis on how to say it, as if she thought I would forget upon waking; Kah-leeh-ah). When I woke up, the number I
forgot, but I was repeating the name upon awakening. I felt only what I can describe as "God's Love" at that point; Never felt it since then.
My first perspective at the time was that this was my "true" soulmate: The one we're all supposed to meet at some point in our lives, or the lover we
go back to when our time here is up. It made sense, because while I have had numerous girlfriends over the last 12 or so years, none ever came close
to matching the love I felt that day. It actually became depressing for a bit. Which brings me to what I kind of believe now,
Looking back, although I wish I could remember the phone number I got in the dream (just to see who may have owned the number), I think more that she
represented at the time that I didn't know what I was looking for. I say this because while her name is embedded in my thoughts, and I can picture the
scene like it was yesterday,,,Her image is a blank canvas. Almost as if to say "Anyone can fill this space, you just have to find them!"
It also may reflect my attitude at the time - I was a teen, and we all know most stereotypical guys want the hottest girl in the class (positive karma
to those that didn't!). Now, I think her image is blank because I'm happy to say I've outgrown that mentality.
My only bit of advice: Don't wait forever to meet this person; but if it happens, then it was meant to happen!