I've been busy busy..can't be here quite as much anymore.
First things first! The dead can and do speak to us, either directly or through another. They do NOT and cannot see our future..noone can see our
future enough to have us make a "drastic" change, living or dead. If however, she sees that you are say, on drugs or something equally as life
threatening, then this could be a reason she's suggesting a drastic change. But if you are seemingly living your life well as far as you can
see..then there is no reason for her saying this.
A couple of things you need to be aware of are:
1) your friend may be receiving mixed messages, and just telling you what 'she' feels from whoever is speaking through her or to her.
2) your friend may be 'toying' with you, for some odd reason??
3)She may *think* your Nan is speaking to her, but how can she or you know for sure? She could be speaking to some dredged up demon or something..and
I cannot stress this enough here on ATS-DEMONS are trixters and liars, they love to play with your mind and confuse you into making some off the wall
decision about your life that could drastically change your life for the worse..or even those around you.
3)Never, ever trust someone- telling you anything- that you cannot see or hear. Would you drastically change your life if *I* told you to do so? No, I
think not and I certainly hope not. Angels and or *good* spirits can be guides for us, but they would never tell you to stop what your doing and do a
360 degree turn in your life unless you were doing something horrible, in that case it wouldn't take a dead person to see that.
The best advice I can give to you or anyone else in this situation..is to go with your instincts, go with your common sense and knowledge here..if you
have to question it and are that confused about it, then turn and walk away-your instincts are telling you that something here doesn't feel right and
therefore you are coming here to ask us about it..but you don't really need to, because you already know within yourself that something here is
I don't know you that well and I know nothing of your friend, but it seems to me from other things you've posted, that someone is feeding you alot
of confusing info about your life and especially your love life..don't rely on anyone anymore to tell you what to do about things concerning your
life..receiving advice is way different then someone dictating how you should be living your life-noone can make the right choice but you..
But they can certainly make the wrong choice for you, if that is against what you would expect of yourself.
I hope this helps..if you have anymore thoughts or concerns you know I'll be happy to offer you *advice*