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originally posted by: dawnstar
a reply to: NerdGoddess
if two people have a kid, they are more likely to get out of poverty if they stick together. there's is only one rent payment, electric bill, ect... where as if they are living in separate homes, the costs are increased greatly. the two people who were just barely scrapping by together don't stand a chance in supported the two homes.
so ya, if the two people can at least live together in moderate peace, they are better off staying together. but, ya know, the grass looks greener on the other side of the fence, and, it's easier to just bail out when the going gets tough and all that. and they whole idea of marriage before children is just so outdated!!
that is about as far as I will agree with them on that. once a child enters the picture, you are better off sticking together unless there is extreme circumstances like abuse.
now if they are saying that they want to go back to the time where every women has a husband behind her supporting her, or danged well should have.... I strongly disagree with that. marriage shouldn't be coerced or forced onto people.
originally posted by: NerdGoddess
Maybe it's just me, and I can accept that if so but....
Promoting marriage and family as a way out of poverty?
LOL.
I feel like there should be more to it than that. Something tells me if two poor people have a child, that it's not really going to take them out of poverty but it's likely to exacerbate it. Then if they get married.... how on earth does that change anything?
I see people complaining all the time that people are just having children to make money.... well... now our own government is advocating overpopulation. Or am I taking this way too far?
Input anyone? I'm lost on that particular bullet point.
-Alee
originally posted by: Edumakated
Anything that can be done in encourage marriage and proper family formation is a good for society as a whole. The incentive structure is all screwed up. Welfare benefits should be increased for being married, not being single. They should be increased for not having more kids, not having kids. They should be increased for getting a job, not taken away.
originally posted by: IgnoranceIsntBlisss
a reply to: bigfatfurrytexan
Maybe he's a big fan of General Patton:
Don't tell people how to do things, tell them what to do and let them surprise you with their results. -George S. Patton
originally posted by: SlapMonkey
originally posted by: Edumakated
Anything that can be done in encourage marriage and proper family formation is a good for society as a whole. The incentive structure is all screwed up. Welfare benefits should be increased for being married, not being single. They should be increased for not having more kids, not having kids. They should be increased for getting a job, not taken away.
While I agree with the rest of your comment and the point of it all, in reality, these things listed above should not be rewarded by government handouts, either.
But I get your overall point, and something definitely needs to be done concerning what the federal government did to the black (and other low-income sectors) community in general with it's, IMO, intentionally designed welfare system that keeps these poor people in a perpetual state of welfare in a system designed to impede one's ability to get out.
I view the welfare system, as it currently exists, like the throat of the loggerhead sea turtle.
Good luck escaping that sarlacc pit.
originally posted by: Edumakated
originally posted by: SlapMonkey
originally posted by: Edumakated
Anything that can be done in encourage marriage and proper family formation is a good for society as a whole. The incentive structure is all screwed up. Welfare benefits should be increased for being married, not being single. They should be increased for not having more kids, not having kids. They should be increased for getting a job, not taken away.
While I agree with the rest of your comment and the point of it all, in reality, these things listed above should not be rewarded by government handouts, either.
But I get your overall point, and something definitely needs to be done concerning what the federal government did to the black (and other low-income sectors) community in general with it's, IMO, intentionally designed welfare system that keeps these poor people in a perpetual state of welfare in a system designed to impede one's ability to get out.
I view the welfare system, as it currently exists, like the throat of the loggerhead sea turtle.
Good luck escaping that sarlacc pit.
I agree... just saying if feds are going to provide welfare, the incentives should be aligned with getting people off it. To me, success of the program should be measured by how many people get off welfare, not how many are on it.
originally posted by: Edumakated
originally posted by: NerdGoddess
Maybe it's just me, and I can accept that if so but....
Promoting marriage and family as a way out of poverty?
LOL.
I feel like there should be more to it than that. Something tells me if two poor people have a child, that it's not really going to take them out of poverty but it's likely to exacerbate it. Then if they get married.... how on earth does that change anything?
I see people complaining all the time that people are just having children to make money.... well... now our own government is advocating overpopulation. Or am I taking this way too far?
Input anyone? I'm lost on that particular bullet point.
-Alee
The incentive structure is all screwed up. Welfare benefits should be increased for being married, not being single. They should be increased for not having more kids, not having kids. They should be increased for getting a job, not taken away.