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originally posted by: FHomerK
a reply to: KarmasBiatch
In all seriousness, your post showed me one thing. That you, yourself, are the asshole here.
Whining, mass categorizing...... sad. Just plain sad. Just as sad as being acclaimed for "getting your power back".
Nobody *took* your power. You gave it up. There was a moment, early on, when you realized the person you were in a relationship was not treating you well. What did you do? You stayed in it, and allowed it to get worse. You allowed it to continue so that you'd have a relationship. Sad. Just plain sad.
Nobody can *take* your power. You voluntarily hand it over.
And then come to a freaking conspiracy site to whinge, cry, and seek out applause.
Sad. Just plain sad. You'll end up in yet *another* relationship like this, because you alone *choose* who to be with. And speaking honestly?
I think you like it. Just as much as you like the glad handing you are receiving here.
Anyways, I am done here. I am done with you. Look in the mirror, and ask yourself the hard questions you've so desperately avoided. Ask yourself why you allowed this things to happen to you time and time again.
Ask of yourself, how it is that you don't even love yourself enough to prevent yourself from experiencing things you shouldn't have to experience.
Choices. You made ALL of your own choices.
originally posted by: Lucius Driftwood
a reply to: FHomerK
Your post lacks empathy.
I'm sorry you don't get it.
We are all beings in jars of clay.
originally posted by: EternalShadow
a reply to: KarmasBiatch
I'm curious to know what part of the situation are you responsible for. He treated you like snip. We all at some point get treated like snip. However, what did we do, or not do, to allow that to take place in our lives?
What could you, personally, have done to prevent this? Are you really mad at men or is it with yourself?
Unfortunately many Women are attracted to assholes and jerks, because that's what Society is pushing out on us. Not a lot of choices left these days you know.
originally posted by: Lysergic
a reply to: ClovenSky
They have evolved to want an Alpha.
Alphas can replace mates easily.
originally posted by: trollz
originally posted by: KarmasBiatch
When a Woman is alone and made to feel as insignificant as I was made to feel, it's heartbreaking, especially when the Man you trusted, uses, screws and then deletes you like you never existed. Thanks to the last prick, I will never trust Men again.
So basically, you're choosing to be a victim even in the absence of the person who tried to make you feel that way in the first place. Not only that, but you're passively-aggressively trying to push your victimhood off on other people by claiming you'll "never trust men again".
You can hide your weakness behind kickboxing and passive-aggressiveness all you want, but you're still mentally weak, and you're the reason assholes get away with the things they get away with. People who are confident and mentally, emotionally and spiritually strong aren't made to feel small and insignificant at the whims of someone else, and you know that.