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originally posted by: Xtrozero
originally posted by: melatonin
So saying 'no' and 'don't want to be forced' caused a lack of clear communication... OK D:
No is not just a word it is also an action and an emotional response. Look at the guy, does he look threatening? Did she give him multiple BJs because she was in fear of her life...lol
You want to explain it rather simply, and it is never simple.
originally posted by: melatonin
You do get the idea that engaging in a BJ does not provide consent for intercourse, especially when followed by 'no' and 'don't want to be forced'?
Some of you appear to be sexual assault cases waiting to happen, lol.
originally posted by: melatonin
So now no doesn't mean no, lol. You're a beaut.
She can decide to remove consent at any point she likes. He is not entitled to a feck because he wants one.
originally posted by: Xtrozero
What did I miss?
originally posted by: Xtrozero
She says no then grabs his tool and sucks it...what does that mean..IDK ...lol
originally posted by: Xtrozero
To have multiple encounters with a person, then say I really didn't want to is lame.
originally posted by: melatonin
And the absence of a no is not a yes.
originally posted by: CryHavoc
Don't be too sure about that. Look up the phrase 'implied consent'.
originally posted by: Xtrozero
I'm serious...is this the sexual assault you suggest?
Grace says she spent around five minutes in the bathroom, collecting herself in the mirror and splashing herself with water. Then she went back to Ansari. He asked her if she was okay. “I said I don’t want to feel forced because then I’ll hate you, and I’d rather not hate you,” she said.
originally posted by: 8675309jenny
a reply to: melatonin
I like how much "LOL" you use, like really laughing out loud ?
What's actually funny is your ridiculous perspective throughout this whole thread, and the fact you let a pathetic dude jerk off in front of you rather than tell him to get lost.
originally posted by: melatonin
a reply to: toysforadults
Cool, big boy. Thanks for taking the time to mansplain for me D:
originally posted by: 8675309jenny
You're a control freak, and people like you and "Grace" from the story are doing so much harm to the MeToo movement that's actually sad.
originally posted by: melatonin
originally posted by: 8675309jenny
a reply to: melatonin
I like how much "LOL" you use, like really laughing out loud ?
Yeah, when responding to people like you. Really D:
Like I really have a big cheesy grin responding to this D:
What's actually funny is your ridiculous perspective throughout this whole thread, and the fact you let a pathetic dude jerk off in front of you rather than tell him to get lost.
lol
Sure he would have been around 5 points up the shaggable scale compared to you. But you both seem to be similarly lacking in the character domain D:
keep GYOW (;
quoting Katie Way, who wrote, in part, “Ashleigh — someone I am certain nobody under the age of 45 has heard of — I hope the 500 retweets on the single news write-up made that burgundy lipstick, bad highlights, second-wave feminist has-been really relevant for a little while.” The reason she decided to read Way’s email on-air, Banfield explained, was that, “if you truly believe in the #MeToo movement, if you truly believe in women’s rights, if you truly believe in feminism, the last thing you should do is attack someone in an ad hominem way”
originally posted by: 8675309jenny
Imagine the public outcry if a male celebrity were to question how "shaggable" a woman was... Haha you're deplorable.
But you might be right in a funny way, I'm certainly not shaggable for you considering I'm married, successful and steer well clear of toxic people like yourself
originally posted by: 8675309jenny
Men are fed up of being told we're everything awful and then some, and guess what men still control the dynamic of pretty much everything in the world. If it keeps going like this men will just close ranks again and we're back to 1900 in a flash.