posted on Jan, 10 2018 @ 12:06 PM
I wont say all women (it's a particular fetish), and there's probably just as many who have a dislike of it.
But, my honest opinion?
Those women subconsciously know where their dude is.
When he's not with you he's not screwing around, he's in boot-camp, or some deployment.
Uncle Sam (or whatever global equivalent) is helping you keep your guy on a tight leach.
Same as why some women go for prisoners, I guess - a captive lover.
And military men are usually in a community - so indiscretions are likely to leak.
OK, it becomes more difficult when there are long-term deployments in other countries (like the Vietnam War), but it seems many women feel the loss of
control at that point and lose interest.
Of course there can also be a fetish for a certain material (like a uniform) or body type (let's face it, military dudes are fit).
There's also a discipline issue. In my generation in South Africa many white women say they only want a man who was conscripted into the old SADF
(only white males were conscripted at the time). The later generations were spoilt slobs.
edit on 10-1-2018 by halfoldman because: (no