Can we expect a typical beautiful woman to be normal?

originally posted by: tigertatzen
Well...that didn't take long. They always give themselves away when they come creeping back with a new account. This one, it's the attractive women bashing threads. I wonder if it's still the same rejection or a new one. Leopards just don't change their little spots.

I don't think women fully understand how beautiful they are in the eyes of men. Yeah, a lot of men are jerks and idiots. But you have to realize for many men, women are proof for the existence of God and are everything that is meaningful and sacred in the World. It's all good.

originally posted by: tigertatzen
Well...that didn't take long. They always give themselves away when they come creeping back with a new account. This one, it's the attractive women bashing threads. I wonder if it's still the same rejection or a new one. Leopards just don't change their little spots.

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I think I know who you're thinking of. But reread the op carefully. The moral of the op story isn't "hot chicks are bad and only date chad".

The Op brings up a couple decent points. I don't think it's that guy.

a reply to: tigertatzen

There is not one bit of "women bashing" going on here. Abysha completely exonerated me.

a reply to: ketsuko

I was referring to those whom are widely recognized as being beautiful by nearly everyone around them.

a reply to: antiantonym

Yes, but not every woman that others think of as beautiful will see herself that way.

originally posted by: antiantonym
Most beautiful women have been beautiful their whole lives. I believe that's frequently a big problem.

Imagine what it's like to be given special treatment from almost everyone starting around kindergarten. You would expect the rationale for the special treatment to be based on unique talents or abilities. It isn't.

The rationale for the special treatment is the fact that you won the genetic lottery. You're special because you exist. And you're treated that way for most of your life. You get special treatment from adults, you have a long list of males who want to know you, and you're usually given a position at the top of social ladder just because you exist.

That has to mess with a person's mind. When almost everyone is giving you special treatment just for existing, how can that not turn into narcissism to some degree?

I don't think it's a bed of roses for beautiful women at all. I imagine it becomes kind of terrible when you can't leave your home without being hit on by men or having to feel men mentally undressing you all the time. You're also sometimes treated badly by jealous women and hateful men.

I just don't see how a person can grow up to be normal under those conditions. Based on my experience, it rarely happens.

You say being beautiful is Just winning the genetic lottery, but wouldn’t the unique talents and abilities that would make someone worthy of you also just genetic. ie,you are clever, fast, strong,and any other ability you can think of requires some sort of gift that you got from your genetic makeup. You sound bitter.

a reply to: Abysha

I think women come in a every possible character configuration and gene sets. How a women looks gets old pretty quick. What makes women so interesting is all the other stuff. Women are like cats, impossible to predict what they are going to say and do next. Women are endless source of fascination. I like when my woman drives me nuts. She keeps me on my toes!

originally posted by: TheConstruKctionofLight

Can we expect a typical beautiful woman to be normal?

Depends what you mean by normal, but yes attractive women can be some of the nicest people around.

You forgot to add, after High School

originally posted by: ketsuko
a reply to: Abysha

Depends on the woman. To some of us, not matter what our husband says, he's biased and has to say so because he married us.

Beauty isn't all that it's cracked up to be anyhow.

That's what I was saying. You and I have found those that are among the "best of men" I was referring to. We all have flaws. The best of men see the lionesses among us and take us, stretch marks and all.

Then the best of those "best of men" make stretch marks of their own, lol.

I have this theory God must be a woman because there's no way a man could make women so damn beautiful.

a reply to: Abysha

The body is the television set not the broadcast,yes you should keep the set in good order but if physical appearance is your only guide then your not all that beyond neanderthal

a reply to: dfnj2015

No God used to be a woman then a male took over resulting in the current mess.

a reply to: ketsuko

The question being asked is:

Can we expect a typical beautiful woman to be normal?

I'll give an example of how having others praise your beauty is all it takes to hurt you.

One woman I know personally has kept her distance from me in a weird way despite the fact that we've hung out a lot. I've thought it was weird until she admitted to me that she was stalked by a guy in high school. Now her behavior is completely logical and understandable. She has PTSD from being stalked, and everything she's done in our relationship has made sense considering that.

A woman I met online was stalked online, and she definitely had PTSD over it. She would only communicate over encrypted communication, and she went to ridiculous extents to protect her identity.

Both of them are very beautiful. That's just one example of how other's view of you can affect you profoundly. It happens in subtle ways too.

a reply to: penfold

I think I am a little bitter about this, but I'm not placing blame. I have to deal with friends I've made who appear to be damaged. I'm trying to cope, and if I'm bitter, it's because I'm disappointed.

a reply to: antiantonym

Being unattractive is not a physical impairment. Do you really think it is?

I think the last question you asked is silly. Who would choose to be born with a physical impairment?

originally posted by: Edumakated
Dream girl options...

1) Beautiful face & body
2) Intelligent
3) Porn star in sack

You can only pick two.

Yeah, there are women who are all three.

Sad you've never met one.

a reply to: antiantonym
I'm assuming we can all agree if the OPs premise is true, the same stands to reason for attractive men?

a reply to: antiantonym

Couldn't you ask the same question about attractive men?
You know the ones.
They wink and girls drop their pants.
Can they be normal?

a reply to: Edumakated

1 and 2

a reply to: antiantonym

Thing is though that no matter what my personal attractiveness to others may be, I won't accept it because of the negative attention my looks received through my formative years.

So that pendulum swings both ways.

I could have been the most attractive person ever, but I have a very hard time accepting that thanks to how I was treated by others.

originally posted by: Edumakated
Dream girl options...

1) Beautiful face & body
2) Intelligent
3) Porn star in sack

You can only pick two.

1 & 2. If she's intelligent, I can teach her how to be a porn star in the sack.

I have found really physically beautiful women are deeply lonely inside. They don't trust all the compliments from men and women and therefore sometimes are deeply insecure.

Really intelligent, educated, born brilliant women win aot of rewards but typically ignore their sexual side and again, feel deeply lonely inside-they long for intimacy but don't trust others or themselves to believe it is achievable because they judge themselves based on the media-idealized physical beauty.

Average looking, average intelligent women quite often are raised without all the extra attention the intelligent and extra beautiful women receive and can go either way. They can become bitter and jealous because that they don't feel "special" or they become caring, giving to others because they focus less on themselves.

Unfortunately, yes, these are stereotypes but really true. Really beautiful women quite often end up picking the wrong men because they lack the ability to discern which man loves them or which man just wants to be seen with them and care nothing about a relationship.

Intelligent, average women can ignore their sensuality and therefore miss out in discovering their inner beauty.

The average-kind of balanced woman-the most common kind-chooses to accept herself and others or be bitter for being average.

Of course, womankind is a mixed bag and men have many to choose from. However, if a man picks a woman based on just one asset instead of digging deeper to find a true soulmate, then that's really more about him than her.