Can we expect a typical beautiful woman to be normal?

Most beautiful women have been beautiful their whole lives. I believe that's frequently a big problem.

Imagine what it's like to be given special treatment from almost everyone starting around kindergarten. You would expect the rationale for the special treatment to be based on unique talents or abilities. It isn't.

The rationale for the special treatment is the fact that you won the genetic lottery. You're special because you exist. And you're treated that way for most of your life. You get special treatment from adults, you have a long list of males who want to know you, and you're usually given a position at the top of social ladder just because you exist.

That has to mess with a person's mind. When almost everyone is giving you special treatment just for existing, how can that not turn into narcissism to some degree?

I don't think it's a bed of roses for beautiful women at all. I imagine it becomes kind of terrible when you can't leave your home without being hit on by men or having to feel men mentally undressing you all the time. You're also sometimes treated badly by jealous women and hateful men.

I just don't see how a person can grow up to be normal under those conditions. Based on my experience, it rarely happens.

a reply to: antiantonym

You know how a woman's private parts drives men crazy. Well, women are around it all the time. There are 7 billion people on the planet for a reason!

a reply to: antiantonym

No

a reply to: antiantonym

Define normal.

Just as a beautiful person (male or female) will have a different experience than most so would a horribly physically unattractive person .

What one would you want to be?

originally posted by: antiantonym
Can we expect a typical beautiful ANY woman to be normal?

Fixed that.

a reply to: antiantonym

I agree with this post, you even brought up some of the potential issues beautiful women could run into for balance.

I have heard that if you are ugly, it is easier to know who your true friends are. I have also read that less attractive people are sometimes subconsciously chosen for positions of power in the work place because they pose less of a threat to others in the work force.

As a male who has not always been attractive, I definitely got bullied by all types and shunned by women and even some of the more popular men at times.

There are benefits to being unnatractive, such as knowing your friends like you for who you are.

It also makes you more empathetic because of your own social experiences.

a reply to: antiantonym

In your other thread you wrote this.
www.abovetopsecret.com...

Personality is the most important thing to me in any relationship, but this woman has me thinking otherwise. She's stunningly beautiful, successful, and wealthy. She is incredibly talented

I think she's hot, and she's significantly younger than me.

Sounds like you're looking for a reason to fault her.

Can we expect a typical beautiful woman to be normal?

Depends what you mean by normal, but yes attractive women can be some of the nicest people around.

a reply to: antiantonym

I have known and do know many beautiful, normal women.

a reply to: antiantonym

Being a hot woman from birth comes with a lot of nurture-esque baggage as I'm sure you've witnessed.

However, there are the "ugly duckling" types, not to mention the occasional hot transwoman who didn't grow up being fawned over.

I've thought about this with my daughter. She's a beautiful girl and she's already getting special treatment in school by the boys (and one girl, lol). I've put thought into this because she's also smart as hell and I'm afraid she'll lean too much on her looks and undersell her intelligence someday. I feel fortunate that she is still nerdy as heck but high school is right around the corner. If she doesn't understand otherwise, she will either grow up to hate men or be codependant on them.

It's the weirdest handicap in the world.

Dream girl options...

1) Beautiful face & body
2) Intelligent
3) Porn star in sack

You can only pick two.

a reply to: seasonal

It's impossible to define normal because it's dependent on culture. You frequently can't even define normal within the confines of a particular country because there are often very different cultures that exist in different parts of a country. For example, what's normal in the Southern Californian culture is not normal in the culture of the rust belt.

I think the last question you asked is silly. Who would choose to be born with a physical impairment?

a reply to: TheConstruKctionofLight

I wasn't thinking of that woman specifically when I started this thread. She shows signs of narcissism to some extent, but I would say it's understandable with her. I was thinking of others that I'm dealing with right now.

a reply to: Edumakated

I'm picking the first two without any doubt. I don't care about sex.

Well...that didn't take long. They always give themselves away when they come creeping back with a new account. This one, it's the attractive women bashing threads. I wonder if it's still the same rejection or a new one. Leopards just don't change their little spots. 😂😂😂😂

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Are you talking about a woman who is beautiful to everyone else or is convinced of her own beauty?

originally posted by: Edumakated
Dream girl options...

1) Beautiful face & body
2) Intelligent
3) Porn star in sack

You can only pick two.

You haven't traveled out of your town, then.

originally posted by: Edumakated
Dream girl options...

1) Beautiful face & body
2) Intelligent
3) Porn star in sack

You can only pick two.

I want the girl in this song:

a reply to: antiantonym

You don't care about sex! Man you're gonna struggle making any woman happy regardless of looks with that attitude.

originally posted by: ketsuko
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Are you talking about a woman who is beautiful to everyone else or is convinced of her own beauty?

To the best of men, those two are one and the same.

a reply to: antiantonym

No offence but it sounds like you're working through some sort of jealousy issues.

I'm very attractive and used to do some small time modelling. I can tell you it's not all getting off speeding tickets and having roses delivered from secret admirers.

a reply to: Abysha

Depends on the woman. To some of us, not matter what our husband says, he's biased and has to say so because he married us.

Beauty isn't all that it's cracked up to be anyhow.