And here in lies a couple of problems and why this peaceful co-existent thing isn't working.
The average person cannot help themselves. They just cannot keep their # to themselves.
They can give but they cannot take.
I'd say 8/10 gay guys and gals I know, you know they are gay because they will tell you every 5 minutes They force it on you, you have to hear about
it every day all day and you cannot criticize and respond unless it completely agrees with the other persons point of view. Any thing less and you're
some kind of "hateful slur here".
the other 2 you never hear what they are, you can maybe tell by how the talk and act. But it is never bought up they are gay. They're not gay, They're
just Adam and Steve.
Adam and Steve are liked because they are judged on their merits. not their sexual choices or choice of pronouns.
It's the constant hypocrisy, and possibly most of all the annoyance of it all. That's right, I'll sit there all day over exaggerating my heterosexual
manliness and telling you every 5 minutes how straight I am.
You're only human regardless of orientation, it would annoy you. If you annoy people and make them suffer, or make people feel inferior or unimportant
of course they're gonna be against you.
And it is not just gays it is all humans these days regardless of race, gender or sexuality.
Stop telling people you're black, white, gay, straight, jewish, arabic, asian, bi, indian, republican, democrat, scientologist, American, African,
Chinese, Australian. etc.
If people who cannot see the obvious want to know, they will ask you. If they are wrong politely correct them.
They're just words, no need to abuse and attack them.
And this is where many people are losing connectivity with their fellow man. These divisive labels.
How hard is it just to have men and women, me you and them. To be seen as and only referred to by name?
Why can your actions not be that which defines you and your judged by instead of some physical attribute or body motions?
Stop playing your cards please. All of you human beings.
Take responsibility for yourselves, stop pointing out the differences between yourself and everyone else, and focus on what you have in common.
I'm not religious. But do as you'd be done by seems pretty bloody simple.
But yeah, stop crying foul. If you give you can get, if you can judge you'll be judged.
If you're gonna force your lifestyle choices etc on others, expect it back in kind.
If you can use certain words so can I. If I cannot then that is not equality.
If you're going to act like an animal, expect to be treated like one.
Seems so damn simple and obvious. How is it people see so much fault in others and not see the exact same behavior in the mirror? How is not being
just a decent human being and nothing more hard?
Blows my logical little mind.
Let's stop over complicating things with buzzwords and labels. Society needs clear defined rules and co-operation among it's citizens to thrive and
Until we stop mixing biology, psychology and sexuality into a single thing and keep making an issue of it.
As for sexual lifestyles and choices let's again call a spade a spade. Look at things and discuss them civilly, logically and scientifically. keep
emotions to a minimum.
The Pedo comparison.
A pedo is a pedo, a gay person is a gay person. They are identical in that both are outside the sexual (procreation male/female design that is the
majority and the 'norm') but are also the same as those into BDSM, Polygamy, Beastiality, group sex, cuckolding, swinging, bisexuality, and a billion
other things where anyone can claim they were "born this way"
So I think it is fair to compare them to, depending on context.
Evey person, gay straight or whatever will feel genetically compelled, others will learn or choose how they live. Pedos are no different to any other
human being. *shock* *outrage*
No, hear me out!
Where pedos are different from any other healthy human with sexual kinks regardless of background, is consent.
A child cannot and should not be able to consent to relationships with adults as I am sure everyone of you would agree. And as a society it is up to
us to ensure children are protected from those who would take advantage.
But pedos ARE 'born that way' regardless of why they are what they are, it's no different to why you are gay. You just are. Whether you chose it or it
There is always going to be someone who views it as abhorent.
Having sex with kids is evil.
Adults having consenual sex regardless of how messed up we think it is not evil.
That is the difference. The psychology and the physicality of it. How we deal with things
We can point out the physical, psychological, and biological differences between different breeds of dogs. We should be able to with humans also. As
long as it is not being done to harm someone else and it is factual. Who cares?
All people are equal, but scientifically not all people are the same.
I have ranted long enough, hope I am getting my points across.
tl;dr get along, don't, just be an adult and don't make others miserable. Stop being divisive, and let's focus on the things that really matter as a
whole species. Stop picking teams. Be truly equal.
If we don't just become ourselves the divide is gonna grow, along with the ignorance and lack of empathy for others.
But we gotta lose the politics of it all. When you're not being attacked in the street and you got the same rights and opportunities as anyone. Stop
crying hard done by and put your hand out. Lifes hard for us all.
Surely we can tell what is good and evil, what helps mankind and what hinders it.
Let's come together and lose the labels.
edit on 12-12-2017 by AtomicKangaroo because: posting issues