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What would you do if your signifigant other spit in your face?

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posted on Dec, 3 2017 @ 06:44 PM
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a reply to: dukeofjive696969

You don't understand the game at all!

The spitter is a narcissist. He has little or no self esteem and absolutely no empathy. His life is about playing games with other people's heart to satisfy his narcissistic feed.

He starts the relationship by overwhelming his victim with his perfection. He claims to love her and does everything to prove it. As his victim relaxes and submits herself to a man, that she thinks is perfect and loves her, he is setting her up for a lifetime of pain and confusion. with only one goal. His goal is to feed his ego. If he can groom her into staying despite the abuse, he is assuring himself that he is superior.

The victim needs help. She is confused and is unable to understand what happened to her perfect partner. The narcissist will always return to loving perfection enough to convince that his behavior is normal. He will convince her that she is less in all ways. He will complain about having to put up with all her imperfections and how their relationship would be perfect, if only she wasn't such a flawed human being.

I know all this is true because the victim had to call someone and actually confirm that the spitting was unusual and abnormal. People that have not been brain washed KNOW that spitting is abnormal and that its time to escape.




posted on Dec, 3 2017 @ 07:05 PM
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originally posted by: MagesticEsoteric
a reply to: AMPTAH

So, despite whatever is going on in their marriage that I’m not privy to, she deserved getting spit in the face?

Gotcha



I don't know about "deserved".

When two people interact, they have their own way of communicating.

One husband might put her out of the house, another file for divorce, yet another might just smile at her and say "Yes, honey, don't do what I say, do whatever you like. I'll still love you no matter what you do. Now get me some coffee."




She provoked it to instigate something. Gotcha!


Don't be blind. She obviously knew he would react negatively to her actions. I'll bet this isn't the first time.



I will not stay out of it bc if she told me, she wanted me to be involved on some level.


That's ok. You get involved, that ruins their marriage. Maybe that would be for the best. She probably should be a single gal, anyway, doing her own thing, not having to consider the other partner's feelings, just her own. That's what it looks like from here.



If she doesn’t want me to do anything, she will tell me to butt the hell out.


Maybe she want's out, needs an excuse, and is goading you to get involved to rend the marriage apart, so she can blame you and him for the mess she caused, and feel psychologically distant from the events.

Women know how to get one man to do their dirty work, when dealing with other men.

It's all manipulation.

Women beat men at manipulation every time. All men have is "anger". But, women use their "weakness" to their advantage, to set one man's anger onto another angry man, and stay clear of the blows.

Be manipulated.

You're a guy, that's your destiny.



posted on Dec, 8 2017 @ 10:59 AM
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a reply to: AMPTAH

sorry, i couldn't let your reply stand because it's just completely assholish. you don't know a damn thing about anyone in that type of situation. but go ahead and make women the supreme evil in every situation, i bet that's working out really well for you.



 
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