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I spoke out to my friend , he listened to what I had to say ,he disagreed and still chose me as his best man, and even though I don't like it I will bite my tongue and be there for him moving forward, because that's what friends do..
originally posted by: CJCrawley
a reply to: Mike Stivic
As I said we are family.
Sounds to me like you are overly critical about your friend's choices of partner. Would any of them match up in your eyes?
If she were perfect...would that be okay with you?
You say you are like brothers but you are NOT brothers; and even if you were, what gives you the right to tell him what you think of his missis? I would take offence at that!
Give the guy a break, he wants to settle down and be happy. His ideal partner wont necessarily conform to your ideal.
I know it's tough when a good friend gets hitched and you don't see as much of them as you'd like.
But hey ho, that's life.
originally posted by: Sheye
Been reading through this thread and I have to admit one thing puzzles me. Why would your dear friends fiancé choose to send him to the store, so she could proceed to dump on him and his family unless she knew she had willing ears to listen.
Why does she not see you as the good friend you say you are who should be squashing all attempts to diss your friend. You need to tell her to her face sternly that you will have no part in a conversation putting down your friend or his family and you will let your friend know what she said.
Sorry Mike.. but it seems so odd she would choose her bf’s best friend to dump about him . Drunk or not ... I find that confusing.