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originally posted by: CaptainHook
Why do women need to go after there ex husbands for alimony? This isn't a time where women had no job opportunities. Women can go out and get a job. Alimony is no longer useful and outdated. It so unfair for men to work there asses off to give money to there ex wives. To me alimony is 'adult child support'. There is no reason to be a parasite and use men or women for alimony. I would never do this to my partner.
Child support system is so corrupted. Men are usually get screwed in this deal. So many stories I heard of how women miss use there child support money and the legal system against there ex partner. Child support system needs to be fixed to help both father and mother equally, not favoring the female and/or the one who has custody of the child. Like, I heard a story where a father works full-time job, and lived with his mothers due to child support putting him into financial strain meanwhile the mother works part-time, lives in a apartment, and she is seeking more money out of her ex because 'she is struggling'. Also, I believe 'if a woman can have an abortion. Then a man can back out of child support'. Like, if a woman can control whether or not she is able to support this child. Why can't men have the same? To back out of there parental liabities. It's not like men have the right to control women to get an abortion. (I'm a pro-choice)
I hate how our society are using men as financial supporters. If my partner and I would ever split. I would go for split custody (nobody pays child support this way I believe). I would make it about my child, not about me.
What do you guys think about child support system, and alimony?
originally posted by: CaptainHook
a reply to: seeker1963
it seems most people think I am a male on here. :O I am compassionate about equality.
originally posted by: CaptainHook
a reply to: CriticalStinkeryou don't have to be married to file for alimony. well, in Canada anyways. Once you're living together for 3 month or 6 months. You become common law switch basically as somewhat the same benefits as a marriage couple.
originally posted by: CaptainHook
a reply to: dfnj2015
I was talking about during pregnancy while a woman wants a child and the father doesn't, not while the father was in the father life.
originally posted by: dfnj2015
originally posted by: CaptainHook
a reply to: seeker1963
it seems most people think I am a male on here. :O I am compassionate about equality.
I appreciate your effort. But when it comes to child support I think the courts generally get it right.
How for equality, how about I'll put the seat down for you as long as you put the seat up for me?
originally posted by: dfnj2015
originally posted by: CaptainHook
a reply to: dfnj2015
I was talking about during pregnancy while a woman wants a child and the father doesn't, not while the father was in the father life.
If you dip the stick then you have to pay for the oil change. I'm not sure what means but sex is a voluntary activity that comes with HUGE responsibilities.
originally posted by: CaptainHook
Why do women need to go after there ex husbands for alimony?
originally posted by: abe froman
The government should mind it's own business.