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originally posted by: TinySickTears
For me this is one of the hardest parts about being a parent. I want to shelter my daughter away from all the assholes but I can't because she has to learn to deal with those types.
So my daughter is 5. The girl she sits next to on the bus is a little asshole.
My daughter colored her a picture and gave it to her when they were about to get on the bus and the kid ripped it up right there. I was so pissed but more hurt.
It hurts my feelings so much.
My daughter asked me why she did that and I just said she is not a nice person. I told her not everyone is nice and not everyone wants to be friends.
It really does hurt me and is super hard to deal with.
It's so tough knowing your kids will have to deal with jerks and so far it is just 5 year old bull#. I can not imagine what it is like to have your kid be bullied and tormented...
It's rough
And yes 5 year olds can be assholes
originally posted by: Bluntone22
a reply to: TinySickTears
The kids not really an asshole, not yet at least.
Kids tend to be a reflection of their parents so they are likely the assholes.
Your kid will just have to learn that not everyone is nice.
originally posted by: Deetermined
originally posted by: TJames
a reply to: TinySickTears
Conversation is cool.
I think you and other members are overly dramatic about BS school stuff.
You didn't participate much as a parent did you? I'm not even sure I believe that you actually have had a child.
originally posted by: TinySickTears
My daughter asked me why she did that and I just said she is not a nice person. I told her not everyone is nice and not everyone wants to be friends.
It really does hurt me and is super hard to deal with.
It's so tough knowing your kids will have to deal with jerks and so far it is just 5 year old bull#. I can not imagine what it is like to have your kid be bullied and tormented...
It's rough
And yes 5 year olds can be assholes
originally posted by: LadyGreenEyes
a reply to: TinySickTears
Tough lesson, but the world is full of people like that. Hard, as a parent, though. Just be sure she knows how to defend herself, and that doing so is alright.
originally posted by: FyreByrd
originally posted by: LadyGreenEyes
a reply to: TinySickTears
Tough lesson, but the world is full of people like that. Hard, as a parent, though. Just be sure she knows how to defend herself, and that doing so is alright.
While yes there are people who act in bad fashion with bad intent.
The vast majority, I'd say everyone really, act badly sometimes. It doesn't help to label bad acts, even bad patterns of behavior, as bad people.
It tends to exacerbate the poor behavior. The goal is to lessen bad acts towards others not encourage them.
There is also the perception. If you label someone bad/evil - yadda, yadda - you will see everything they do in that light and may miss some amazing insights.