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originally posted by: mOjOm
a reply to: carewemust
He's 93 years old. Let the crazy old bastard get a squeeze on a cheek once in a while.
If you really have an issue with then kneel down next to old codger in the chair for the picture so your ass isn't in his face.
originally posted by: diggindirt
Nobody dislikes George The First more than I do, but hey, he suffered from strokes and some form of Parkinson's so there is probably some damage to the part of the brain controlling his impulsive behavior.
originally posted by: mOjOm
a reply to: diggindirt
Exactly. Even my wife who hates bush was like, "Oh come one he's 93, cut him some slack."
I'm not saying it's a good thing to do, or that it's always ok to do.
But he's not molesting anyone and he's about as dangerous of a sexual assaulter as a 3 year old.
Like you said, just tell him not to do it again or you'll make him sorry. At 93 and in a chair you can snap him in half if you want.
Otherwise, I think giving people that are that old a little extra tolerance is fine. I have old ladies do that stuff to now and then too. A pinch on the cheek or whatever. It's not assault, it's just a little over affection they do but is harmless. I can handle that with grace and class and nobody has to feel bad about it. That's how I see it. I get it that others may see it different.
originally posted by: mOjOm
a reply to: carewemust
He's 93 years old. Let the crazy old bastard get a squeeze on a cheek once in a while.
originally posted by: DexterRiley
I just did a quick internal survey of the my household:
- Adult daughter and husband
They said at first that it would probably be because he couldn't reach that high, and it would be unintentional. Much like the argument that the OP makes.
Then I explained to them that basically H.W. was really just being a "dirty old man" and that there was nothing unintentional about it. They said they would still just laugh about it.
- wife
She was familiar with the news report, so I didn't have to explain the situation. Her answer was in no uncertain terms, "I would slap the shiiit out of him."
- my view
I spent some time thinking about it from a variety of different gender and age scenarios, and how I would feel in each case. I came to the conclusion that there would be immediate conflict on my part if a man, who was somewhat younger than 94, touched my wife, daughter, or me.
On the other hand, not only would I not feel offended if a 94 year old man in a wheelchair touched my ladies, I would laugh heartily and give him a high five for still having the urge. My wife didn't believe me when I said that. Oh well.
Even if a man of that vintage and immobility were to grab my ass, it wouldn't be cause for an immediate beat down. I'd probably laugh and tell him he's been in that wheelchair too damn long!
-dex
originally posted by: mOjOm
a reply to: carewemust
Maybe. Might kill him though so you have to be careful with stuff like that.
Some hottie 20 year old with hard body bouncing all over him might be too much for his heart.
originally posted by: mOjOm
a reply to: carewemust
Maybe. Might kill him though so you have to be careful with stuff like that.
Some hottie 20 year old with hard body bouncing all over him might be too much for his heart.