posted on Feb, 11 2005 @ 08:04 PM
Originally posted by Ambient Sound
I got out of it but she did get to keep my sense of humor in the divorce settlement.
I didn't get mine back til I left.
My only advice about divorce is that "staying friends" is like a hyped hollywood notion. If it's truly mutual and amicable, fine. Or if you have
kids involved, you better work something out. But I had to go hard nosed and cold to get out, or I never would have. No kids were involved.
Not evil. I was more than fair. I handed over everything for the privelege
of a clean getaway. Best way to go.
Then don't "compete" when it's over. It's ugly. My ex worked hard to "win" the game of life when I left... stealing my friends, running me
down, remarrying asap, etc.
I just never looked back. Enjoy your own life however it comes. The ex is an irrelevant measure.
Well, I do look back to joke. You've got to laugh and keep a sense of humor about these things.
See if you can get visitation rights for yours Ambient.