I´d like to vent about a special person that is in a relationship (+child) with a family member. Nothing that I didn´t tell him already straight in
the face but this time I don´t know what to do anymore.
This extremly low and stupid being is one of the "ganster" types that has zero IQ, two left hands but thinks he can do everything after watching a YT
video. 25ish years old. The type who does powdery drugs in the bathroom with a 3 year old in the flat according to the mirror and white stuff I´ve
seen (and disposed, call me an asshole but it was accessible to the 3 year if he would enter the bath alone COME ON!) while visiting the bathroom
WHILE I helped them out of the mess they got in. He´s the sort of guy who spends all her money and but keeps his own bank account just for him,
spending money on drugs and other stuff, like, a brand new EMPTY aquarium for 1000 bucks that´s collecting dust now. He´s also gambling.
Back to the cause:
A lightbulb was defect (as turned out hours later) so the idiot thought it´s the dimming switch. Instead of checking the fuses of the dimming switch
(pull out, turn 180° and insert replacement fuse) he ripped it out of the wall and bought a new one, messed up the connections and fried it. Then he
installed a switch and switched Neutral to Phase....... yeah you guessed it.
Then he called me. No power in the flat. They have a small child. So I decided to help out (who else..). When I saw what he did in the meantime while
I was driving there, I freaked out. He dismounted all the switches in the surrounding area, dismounted all sockets, opened every connection box he
could find AND CLIPPED THE #ING WIRES BECAUSE HE´S TOO DUMB TO PUSH ON THE LEVER TO FREE THE WIRE FROM THE SOCKET/SWITCH.
After two hours of reconnection and figuring out the original installation / tracing down the color codes for the wires, nothing was working. I
already began to doubt my skills. That´s when I noticed small scratch marks at the sockets PVC. The #ing idiot pryed the sockets and switches open
because he´s too dumb to push on the small lever (that even reads "push", although it´s english). So he poked around in there, hoping to achieve
something, failed and CLOSED THEM to give them (later) back to me for installment. After that didn´t help, he clipped the wires and I had to fix this
mess. Of course there were broken wires inside the insulation, too. I cursed him everything while I used every trick to reconnect cables that are 2cm
"long".. People have told me how beautiful I can swear but this time, no fun involved. He then proceeded to leave because he was pissed (because no
So after three hours of dicking around with what should have been a 1 minute job, I was seeing light at the end of the tunnel (pun intended).
That´s when it got interesting. I´ve overhead a sharp conversation while mounting the frames and faceplates soon to be free to finally leave. For
that, you have to know that this individuum "owns" (still debt on the car) a KIA ceed ("tuned", 3000€ wheels, scratched wheels after 1 week because
he can´t #ing drive) and it´s a small story of it´s own. Let´s just say, the car is standing for almost 2 years now. Nobody knows what´s up. I
even offered help downloading error codes but he told me it´s the generator and he will fix it soon (on his own....).
Anyways, because of that, he wanted to take her car, as he does for like almost 2 years like it´s his own. That´s when the conversation heated up
between both and I heard (translated, not original wording) "you can´t use it until the brakes are fixed!" right when I stepped through the door with
my toolbox. Naturally aware of his stupidy, I asked "what´s up with the brakes?" (the little kids and my relatives safety in mind). I was told they
"lost" a brake pad.
so I asked how that came to be. He said it was laying beneath his car (* wait for it) but he already disposed it and ordered replacement. I gave in
playing this game and told him, if that´s really the case, he´ll need new braking disks, too and the brake system checked generally. He said he
already ordered all the tools, too. He then left via foot. I stayed another 10 minutes and went out with her on the balcony where she took a smoke and
calmed my nerves smoking passive. She then asked me if I could take a look at the car. I was extremly glad she asked because:
that guy + brake repair = funerals
So we went down into the underground garage to check on the car. A quick look revealed someone was messing with them/him, because all brakepads were
installed. Also, all discs had a nice blue hue to them. I made my comment about that and then I decided, because it´s her car and he´s #ing it up,
to do a small check. She seemed very happy that someone was looking after her car.
The oil was nonexistent, the "stick in gauge" was not even wet at the bottom. Gladly, the misstreated oil found another place to stay: The cooling
fluid had a nice brown texture to it. Jackpot! Of course the engine warning light was on. I was greeted with some "rap music", if not for my deaf
ears, I would be now. He´s smoking #ing blunts in there judging by the look of the ashtray.
I´m so angry right now, this fool is living the "ghetto style" and endangering every person around him and making live misserable. I don´t know what
to do, really. I know it´s not directly my job to look after her but family is family and she has done nothing wrong, except for tolerating him and
the stuff he does (the drugs in the car and bathroom).
I urgently told her NOT to allow that he put´s his uncapable fingers on the braking system and that the engine is toast already when she started to
cry. I can´t find the correct words to describe my anger about this stupid, stupid person. There´s only one positive thing to say about the guy: at
least he goes to work regulary.
Edit: I forgot, I drove to the local hardware store and bought a bunch of new switches and a single socket so they at least have power and light in
that corner of the flat but will face the consequences of stupidy brought uppon them by this degenerated person.
edit on 8-10-2017 by verschickter because: (no reason given)