You Are Not a Psychic

a reply to: blend57

First off sorry for your lost.

If she was truly genuine, the first thing she would have done is describe your mom's physical appearance to know if she is truly talking to the dead.

First, I'm sorry for your loss please accept this virtual hug.

Second you're right, it's your sisters time and money, and I agree most psychics seem to be charlatans nothing more nothing less.

Consider that everyone grieves differently, and while it may not be the most healthy way financially or emotionally, your sister will have to sort through her emotions the way she sees fit. I would recommend that you continue to open your ear to her anxieties about this, and offer her a shoulder to cry on. I think it's okay for you to also share your opinions on the matter, but just try to be aware of how it may sound to her, I think you'd probably want her to understand your view without her feeling like shes being personally belittled for allowing her grief to take her to such a person.

Wishing you all the best. I don't know if time heals all wounds, but time certainly teaches you healthier ways of coping with those wounds.

-Alee

a reply to: blend57

I knew you were going to say that!



But seriously, your Mom needs your prayers. Donate or feed the poor, and give her personal effects like clothes, hairbush, shoes, etc., to charity. Otherwise her spirit might stick around because of attachment to those things. Using a a paid psychic potentially increases attachment -- on you part or the departed. Maybe her spirit needs a proper send-off, instead of being called up again. Think about it. If you were trying to get to heaven, would you want your living relatives calling you back? Let her get set up first, then pray. She'll come around. Good luck and goddesspeed.

a reply to: szino9

Oh. My. God. YOU HAVE THE GIFT!!! lol

a reply to: DAVID64

I could say more, but of course that would come with a charge of a small amount

a reply to: blend57

Hey, good morning...Im a SENSITIVE. I accurately pickup vibes, "info", auras and positive and negatives off people, animals and objects. There is a difference in being legit with "perceptions" with this and not. "INTUITIVE" is a more precise term to use...

One should not request "compensation" for what I consider a gift from higher sources. I'll never try to convince anyone (I dont NEED to) and dont claim to see the past or future (even if I can)...nor claim I am accurate or absolute. Therein lies the difference....."truth" is free to everyone.

To "see" beyond or "through" the veil as I said...is a gift...a blessing if you will...and should be freely shared. Thats how you learn the difference.

"Peace, Love 'n LIght...Always" .....MS

a reply to: szino9

I don't think people understand that, in this day and age, it's quite easy to be a "psychic". Let's say you want to see one....You call, make an appointment and it's next week. The "psychic" has plenty of time, not to mention your name and possibly address, to comb through social media and pick up all kinds of things about you, your family, etc... and it wouldn't surprise me at all to find that some of the more famous [ and expensive ] ones had private detective working for them, to dig up things like bank accounts, debts and those ugly little family skeletons in the closet and viola! [ spooky voice ] The Psychic Knows All!!

a reply to: blend57

Look. Your sister is involved in HER healing process. Keep your own stuff out of it.

originally posted by: SallieSunshine
Look at it this way- this woman is acting as a grief counsellor for your sister. She probably charges less than a grief counsellor, also.

Sal

a reply to: blend57

Nah, she's preying on the people suffering grief with mundane words that anyone can say. and that sickens me, just like people of 'faith' go to disaster zones and "Let god help you, pray and give us money"

Talk to barny at the pub, he'd do it over his own paid for beer.

geeze...

originally posted by: tigertatzen

I find the hair thing very odd, and it IS weird...that's a tool for magick, not typical of a psychic to ask for hair. The brush, yes, for her energy...but the hair itself should not be necessary for a simple communication. That part, I find concerning...what kind of psychic is this?

Would not the actual child of the parent be enough energy?

She is actually created from her mother, unlike anything else.

a reply to: Sillyolme

I have the cure for cancer and world hunger.

Only $29.95.

Don't wanna pay? Well, god told me to charge you. Like freddies voice. *which btw is far from angelic*

I have tested empaths and people with some synchronistic psi information gifts.

To make it clear they are people with gifts but do not prove they are 1.0 on objective logic awareness scale. At 1.0 awareness a consciousness start to become aware of it's own subjective coloring (misinterpretation) of data and create tools to remove coloring (misinterpretation) and can also logically follow data to understand how it is manifested.

The majority of humans are very low on both objective logic awareness scale and even worse at body synchronicity sense manipulation. It would be interesting to meet souls that are objective logic awareness scale>1.5 and >5% in body synchronicity sense manipulation. 5% for an empath means 5% of all particles in the body of the empath is entangled with 5% of the person the empath is measuring/experiencing. My guess is that 1% in body synchronicity sense manipulation is very rare among humans.

that is the lowest kind of con artist, the kind that preys on grief. and for those who suggest it eases suffering, these are not professionally trained people, they just say whatever comes into their heads, what people want to hear. they could easily make things worse. and lying about someone's dead relatives just so you can get their money? scum of the earth.

a reply to: fiverx313


Even though I like the Medium I saw, and I've been to her, had conversations with her about a missing person case, and genuinely admire her kindness and sense of humor.

I saw a few people who looked riddled with grief that imo could have used even a generic kind lighthearted message got nothing surprised me.

I will no longer recommend this to anyone I know who is grieving.

Your poor sister. She's crying out for help with her pain. There are so many charlatans out there and I know you just want to protect her and her pocketbook. Let's face it-this woman is stealing her money-she's no more than a thief.

If your sister is an adult, it's her choice to do as she wishes and spend her own money.

If you continue to put up resistance it will put a wall up between you and she will defend this charlatan even more.

I would say give your sister her chance to grieve her own way and be more supportive while gently letting her know that you and she don't agree about her belief in this thief; gently. She just needs time to find out on her own if you let her.

Yes, she is throwing money away but it is hers to do as she wishes and when she brings up these visits it's okay to say that you are not comfortable discussing something you don't share with her. But, be there for her otherwise even if it's just to hug her while she cries.

Usually, only time can heal such deep wounds. And take care of yourself, too.

Thats because it was a song...
and while some people are able to recognize circumstances that lead to future outcomes, it doesnt necessarily mean they are going to happen, there are several different things that can happen based on many present conditions. Including things no one would know could happen and what happens based on outside interference. I dont think (imho) that Psychics are what a person should look for after losing a friend or relative. It has been better to make peace with thier presence gone. (Atleast in my personal experiences anyway)

originally posted by: blend57

She didn't say anything that was unique or special to my family.

So sorry for your loss.

I'm going to take the side of the psychic in this one.
1. you couldn't do it better yourself, otherwise your sister would have come to you
Are you spending enough time with her, recollecting shared memories, visiting places special to you
2. some things might just be words which can be thought of and spoken by anyone, but that wouldn't be convincing enough to your sister
3. we're all humans, we might pretend to be vastly different but we're all grey on the inside, we all piss/#/eat/sleep/move our bodies around and talk with them. It's only logical to hear the same stuff like anyone else about death
4. nobody has definitive answers, not the supernatural, nor religion, nor science

My solution is to do the work myself, get educated about faith, life and death. We live in a society of specialists for good reasons and it's normal to go see a specialist for something which isn't our own trade.

It sound much better than the alternative. Where I live, politicians discuss setting limits on the amount of time people can mourn, like someone mourning over a lost one for more than 3 months means there's a mental illness and the person will need therapy and medication/mind altering drugs. I'd rather see a pastor or religious authority myself if I needed to spill my guts, but otherwise I'll deal with life and death myself even if it costs me time I could have spend on earning money, social activities etc.

a reply to: blend57
Sounds like you didn't care much for your mother,I would be proud to have something of my mom's,seems youth today are too hung up on themselves,screw everyone else,my feelings are ones that count