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originally posted by: MysticPearl
a reply to: Blue_Jay33
I say toughen the hell up and if being asked if you're pregnant offends you, lose some weight.
Not that hard.
And if you're happy being as a fat as a pregnant woman, then why would you care what others think or say?
I wonder how many women who have been "fat shamed" this way have ever refused a man's offer of a subway seat and told him "I'm not pregnant, just greedy." I don't wonder at all; the answer is 'zero'.
I'd go so far as to suggest that if you feel ashamed of people thinking you are pregnant when you're actually just a greedy gutbucket
originally posted by: dantanna
im a power lifter. big chest but big belly. i hear 'you gotta drop that weight' all the time. people need to grow the fokk up. 'fat shaming' LMFAO. for a chick no less? guys LOVE fat broads. if only girls loved fat guys lol.
originally posted by: MysticPearl
a reply to: MotherMayEye
Why?
My wife is pregnant right now as we speak, and she loves her clients coming up to her and asking if she's pregnant, others as well. It's something to celebrate.
So because a few fat women who get offended is someone with good intentions mistakenly assumes they're pregnant, all the actual pregnant women out there shouldn't share in the joy of being pregnant?
Do people understand how ridiculous this is, yet again.
It's the premise that because a few fatties are thin skinned, no one else should assume or ask a woman if she's pregnant.
originally posted by: Skywatcher2011
originally posted by: Blue_Jay33
But what I am speaking about here is when anybody says to a woman who is overweight from their perspective "Oh when are you expecting?"
ATS share your opinion ?
Don't ask, don't tell.
If you don't like it then lose some bad weight and keep the healthy. Can't blame anyone but yourself on this.
But instead of getting offended, and I get that sometimes there are physical or biological constraints which you don't have any control over, the best thing to do is respond honestly stating this. That way the other person has a better understanding of your situation.
But if you sit on couch and eat chips all day....tisk tisk!
originally posted by: MysticPearl
a reply to: MotherMayEye
Who cares if some lady might think you're an a-hole if you ask if they're pregnant? That's on them. That's their problem.
originally posted by: MotherMayEye
Oh, come on. women who get asked if they are pregnant when they aren't are NOT driving a feminist PC culture.
But don't conflate it to BLM. That's absolutely ridiculous. There's no "real fringe concern."
It's just good manners not to ask. Your rights are not being threatened, FFS.