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originally posted by: JoshuaCox
Say you take the 2 best and worst case scenerios and join them..
A) a man who is an excellent husband, friend and father who is just atrocious at the 9-5 thing.. can barely keep a job, if they can keep it at all..
B) a man who is an excellent employee and buisness man who is just atrocious to their friend and family..
What should society reward and revere?
Which one would you want as your next door neighbor??
originally posted by: JoshuaCox
Say you take the 2 best and worst case scenerios and join them..
A) a man who is an excellent husband, friend and father who is just atrocious at the 9-5 thing.. can barely keep a job, if they can keep it at all..
B) a man who is an excellent employee and buisness man who is just atrocious to their friend and family..
What should society reward and revere?
Which one would you want as your next door neighbor??
Imho we are doing it completely backwards...
How is some CEO who is just horrible to their family, considered a pillar of the community, while your average person who devotes his entire life to his friends and family but is bad at buisness is considered a drain on society???
Who ever decided that was a good idea?!?!
originally posted by: JoshuaCox
a reply to: Edumakated
I' at specifically referring to those in the ends of the spectrum as I think they are a good example.
There are countless people who pull off both to varying degrees..
However, a person with out a decent job is considered a "bad person" usually. Reguardless of their personal lives.. if they can't hold down a job they are considered garbage by most..
While a very successful businessman is exactly the opposite.. only their buisness ventures count and their personal life is irrelevant..
But someone who isn't good at buisness is inherently bad?!?!
I think if you ask most people in a vacuum they say family comes first.. yet in reality it seems to. Be quite the opposite.
originally posted by: JoshuaCox
a reply to: ketsuko
You mean..
"I assume most people who don't work don't treat their families well either.."
Because if you ask any wife or child they would rather have a father there who loved them, than a house in the burbs...