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originally posted by: worldstarcountry
From a former cheater, I say just bang her on the low so the both of you can get it out of your system. I been there with the second and third thoughts. Its usually just sexual tension. Have a great evening with her, or two or three, or for four - 7 months whatever. But you must not pursue this woman as a replacement for your established relationship. If she cheats on her man for you, why would she not do it again down the road if the two of you were together?? And she may think the same as well of you down the road.
I promise when both of you have a great intimate time together, both of you will realize how much you cherish the partner in your established relationships.
Perhaps the four of you can enjoy a mature adult open relationship with each other. That would be ideal, but it always seems so difficult to pitch
is that a diplomatic way to say you have had worse? definitely postpone the wedding dude. time to figure out what is good for you instead of what you can live with.
...always been relatively happy together.