a reply to: Mousygretchen
your intelligence on ATS in your words is well qualified beyond those jobs to other things. Me I always end up entering jobs that are "over my head"
like when i was a stock boy at foodlion.. then one day they fired the manager and asked me to run the frozen and dairy section. I ran it so well I
didnt have any more waste of products going bad, and had my shelves stocked well..
emotionally or socially maybe its different (I don't know) but your intelligence is above average for sure.
For me I cant use up all my energy in front of customers. It would drain me to the core. I have to be the supporting character, from behind the
I have no clue if stability is overrated as I don't often experience it.
I hardly ever cooked before working as a cook. I was washing dishes so I didn't have to talk to anyone.. Simple and hard work, and free in a way like
you can just walk outside anytime you want, and youre not wearing a name tag or uniform..
one day no one showed up and I was asked to cook. since then Ive only been cooking.
Ive been asked if things dont work out Im the next to run the kitchen..
It all comes in stages.. Small stages. Just do something, see what happens.
coming from the dude who didnt think he could even live in this life, that jobs were slavery, and I was soo soo unconfident. One of the reasons I
joined the Army was to be taken care of.. (small sacrifices and compromises).. Heres an automatic check and free food free rent...
I don't think it's good to compromise yourself for an easier life. That IS THE problem in the world all the way down that slide to the top of power in
I think the only way to be happy is not to settle. You can be humble. You can have low expectations.
Settling is no good because you know you are worth more. And living that life (I did it) you waste away slowly over time even though life is "easier"
this way when you don't strive for better.
Aries usually like independence lol. I understand if you need training wheels for now. Maybe someday you will not?
Always great talking to you on ATS.
edit on 10-4-2018 by Reverbs because: (no reason given)