posted on Feb, 4 2005 @ 03:52 AM
The simple fact is whether someone is activly "bugchasing" has hs sex with someone who has, is simply oblivous to the risk, or to reckless to care,
is something you simply can not know during a one night stand. Considering that many homosexuals are ether in the closet or bisexual this problem
affects us all. The thing people dont want to pay attention to is that when you have sex with someone you are also in effect having sex with every
partner that person ever had. This is why I thnk the lie of "safer sex" is so dangerous. It is also why support abstinence programs. In the world
we lve in sex is inherantly dangerous and getting more so every day. Thats why it is so important to teach chldren to wait for sex. In a post a while
back marg6043 talked about how it was wrong that a 15 year old girl who wanted birth control couldn't get it without parental approval, and then
mocked the idea that she shouldn't be having sex at all, however how many 15 year olds do you know who have the abillty or knowledge to really weigh
the risks involved in sex?
Hell how many 20 year olds do you know with the maturity to weigh the risks?
Considering the chances of condom failure, the number of STD that condoms wont protect you from, and the fact that you never know if your sport #ing
partner is or has been with someone like this how can we possiblly accept safer sex currculum as a way of educating our children and keepng them safe?