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originally posted by: MarioOnTheFly
a reply to: butcherguy
we all have baggage my good man.
originally posted by: dfnj2015
a reply to: OccamsRazor04
I actually like being married. The first time you are with a girl is very exciting. But when you've been with someone a really long time there's a level of intimacy that comes with familiarity. I like my second wife a lot. It's all good!
originally posted by: slider1982
a reply to: Pandaram
You have to know that there will be some baggage that goes with the territory, but under it all there is just a person like you and me and like people in general some are good and some bad. The over riding factor will be would you be happy with her dancing for other men?, will you be happy with guys constantly hitting on her?,..
Don't judge her because of what she does. Meet her, talk, walk and exercise your loins and then decide if you like and want her and same for her!
originally posted by: Pandaram
Cut the story short. We were pub crawling around soho, Piccadilly area on the new year night ( tamil new year btw )
And decided go to the strips. At one point i went out for smoke and there she was. A above average Estonian women 24 years old. (I am 39). I chatted rubbish. Share jokes and talked politics. I wasnt flirting or being a perv due to i know this is stripper and not a normal women with normal life.
She has told me her real name and i told her mine. Three weeks later, out of blue she added me on face book. We are chatting now.. and leading to a potential date.. i am bit worried about gettting involved with thid women. she is very very friendly. Look like sex bomb. I am sure she have stories to tell.. i am not sure if i want to hear them. Most importantly i dont want to use her for sex. As clearly she is not after my money as i dont have any.. 🤣 ( yeah i dont think she is after my body )
What shall i do? meet this women? She is very addictive to talk to. I do like to see her and feel her. But i dont want drama.
originally posted by: PRSpinster
a reply to: Pandaram
Bro, listen to me carefully. I am a manager in an upscale gentleman's club in the South. I deal with dancers six days per week. First, if you aren't looking for drama, keep her around as a friend for six months before hooking up with her. That will give you enough time to understand that deep down, girls who dance, are broken. I don't care who she is, even if she doesn't want you for your money or your body, she has an angle. Dancers are good at telling dudes what they want to hear. The good ones will know what a guy wants before he does and will twist them so much, they begin to think of her suggestions as their own idea.
Do you know what dancers do for money? Not just dance, man. And the money is so good, she will never stop doing it. Especially if you don't make enough. Even if she leaves, she'll go back.
Most of them lead double lives. Their bfs or HUSBANDS don't know what they do. They are classic manipulators. Ok? So, if I were you, I'd back off. Don't go down that road. Nothing good will come of it.