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Dating a stripper

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posted on May, 4 2017 @ 03:26 AM
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If I was a younger lad I would say go for it and have at least one decent night of debauchery and fun...

On the other hand and now that I am knocking on a few years I would also question myself as to if this is not one of those scams and that all she wants is to have British nationality!

Happened to someone I knew about 20 years ago... He met up with an eastern european chick, he fell in LUST, they got married and within 6 months she divorced him once she got UK citizenship.

She also ripped him off for all the money she could take and even managed to get his flat... If I remember correctly she also worked the night time bars which were controlled by eastern european mafia types...

Just saying!

Warmest

Lags
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posted on May, 4 2017 @ 03:28 AM
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Strippers do this all the time. They get a guy hooked, won't meet up with them unless it's at the strip club, and milk them for money.

"Hey, can we meet at the club and hang out?". "My boss says I can't talk unless you buy a dance..."

I mean it might not be the case here, but I'm betting it is.

It doesn't matter if you don't have money. Guys get suckered into doing stupid stuff and wasting money all the time when they don't have it. Be realistic about it, do you have a super good personality? Are you incredibly funny? Are you really good looking?

I don't have experience with this personally, but I've seen it happen to people. The stripper/hooker with the heart of gold is probably one of the rarest things in the world. I bet she's also trying to pay her way through college, just wants an honest man who likes her for her and will treat her right. If you're going to pursue it, make her pursue you, don't spend any money on her outside of dates and don't visit her at work. Good luck man.



posted on May, 4 2017 @ 03:28 AM
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a reply to: enlightenedservant

This is exactly what im thinking and what i am planning.. we do only live ones.



posted on May, 4 2017 @ 03:29 AM
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a reply to: Lagomorphe

This too. I would run dude.



posted on May, 4 2017 @ 03:30 AM
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If she is Estonian then ...

What happens to her after Brexit?

I am sure she doesn't know. So in the meantime ... she dates like crazy ... marries some fool ... and gets to stay rather than returning to Estonia.

P


ETA. Seems more than I had the same thought.
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posted on May, 4 2017 @ 03:33 AM
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a reply to: Domo1

No.. this is different. She is being friendly and have lot in common also bit of tension.

And yes i am very good looking. And good personality. I have no problem getting women or winning contracts

And i am 39 seen all the games women plays. Lot of time escape with my sanity intact.

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posted on May, 4 2017 @ 03:42 AM
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originally posted by: Pandaram
a reply to: Domo1

No.. this is different. She is being friendly and have lot in common also bit of tension.

And yes i am very good looking. And good personality. I have no problem getting women or winning contracts

And i am 39 seen all the games women plays. Lot of time escape with my sanity intact.


I would really like to hear about the outcome of this story?

I was 39 once too as were many blokes I knew and know...

We have NEVER seen all the games that the other gender can play mate... believe me...

If she/they wants to screw you over she/they will and you won't even know until it is too late...

I am sure others will come along shortly to express similar opinions...

Enjoy but be careful is all I can suggest.

Warmest

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posted on May, 4 2017 @ 04:09 AM
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a reply to: Pandaram




Lot of time escape with my sanity intact.




Good luck man!



posted on May, 4 2017 @ 04:12 AM
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a reply to: Pandaram

Bro, listen to me carefully. I am a manager in an upscale gentleman's club in the South. I deal with dancers six days per week. First, if you aren't looking for drama, keep her around as a friend for six months before hooking up with her. That will give you enough time to understand that deep down, girls who dance, are broken. I don't care who she is, even if she doesn't want you for your money or your body, she has an angle. Dancers are good at telling dudes what they want to hear. The good ones will know what a guy wants before he does and will twist them so much, they begin to think of her suggestions as their own idea.
Do you know what dancers do for money? Not just dance, man. And the money is so good, she will never stop doing it. Especially if you don't make enough. Even if she leaves, she'll go back.
Most of them lead double lives. Their bfs or HUSBANDS don't know what they do. They are classic manipulators. Ok? So, if I were you, I'd back off. Don't go down that road. Nothing good will come of it.



posted on May, 4 2017 @ 04:16 AM
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originally posted by: PRSpinster
a reply to: Pandaram

Bro, listen to me carefully. I am a manager in an upscale gentleman's club in the South. I deal with dancers six days per week. First, if you aren't looking for drama, keep her around as a friend for six months before hooking up with her. That will give you enough time to understand that deep down, girls who dance, are broken. I don't care who she is, even if she doesn't want you for your money or your body, she has an angle. Dancers are good at telling dudes what they want to hear. The good ones will know what a guy wants before he does and will twist them so much, they begin to think of her suggestions as their own idea.
Do you know what dancers do for money? Not just dance, man. And the money is so good, she will never stop doing it. Especially if you don't make enough. Even if she leaves, she'll go back.
Most of them lead double lives. Their bfs or HUSBANDS don't know what they do. They are classic manipulators. Ok? So, if I were you, I'd back off. Don't go down that road. Nothing good will come of it.



Right on



posted on May, 4 2017 @ 04:30 AM
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a reply to: Pandaram

You're 39 and need help in handling a woman that obviously is stronger than you? As was suggested early on in a post, "RUN!"



posted on May, 4 2017 @ 04:46 AM
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No.. this is different. She is being friendly and have lot in common also bit of tension. 


Famous last words.




And yes i am very good looking. And good personality. I have no problem getting women or winning contracts 


Then put it to good use and find a woman without a ton of baggage.
If she is a stripper, there is a ton of baggage.



posted on May, 4 2017 @ 04:53 AM
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I think the only problem you have is that you met her at the stripclub.



posted on May, 4 2017 @ 04:54 AM
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I reckon she's grooming you for your kidney... if you wake up in a bath tub full of ice, then don't say I didn't warn you


Only joking - sounds like you just need to man up a little and take her out on that date.



posted on May, 4 2017 @ 05:01 AM
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a reply to: UKTruth

Yeah except that's when she drugs him, loads him in a car and harvests his organs.



posted on May, 4 2017 @ 05:03 AM
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a reply to: butcherguy

we all have baggage my good man.



posted on May, 4 2017 @ 05:10 AM
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a reply to: Pandaram

I would wonder why you would want to date someone that doesn't fit your definition of 'normal'?
You said it was a 'potential' date so, nether of you has asked the other out yet?
It's a date not a proposal of marriage (yet) IMO and there's no need to overthink it. If you enjoy each other's company and want to see each other socially then go for it.
Not everyone who works in the sex industry has baggage although an awful lot of folks not in that industry do as well, it's a crap shoot either way these days. She may not have friends outside of the club and wants to. She may have a difficult time finding friends who don't have an ulterior motive (money, drugs, sex).
I don't know, it's your choice and I wish you luck in whatever it is you're looking for.



posted on May, 4 2017 @ 05:37 AM
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DONT DO IT!!!! For the love of God !!! RUN!!!!

When I was 30 I went to the strip club with my buddy and looked on the stage and saw the hottest lil 19yo I ever saw. I looked at Chris and said.... Gimme the chance and I would marry that girl.

About the most unpleasant 3 years I have ever had was spent married to her..... the job gives them a strange outlook on life



posted on May, 4 2017 @ 06:04 AM
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Listen to Lagomorphe and Domo.

I had a friend who was an ex-rentboy. You have to understand that people in that sort of profession just see the rest of us as 'marks'.

They'll exploit your good nature ruthlessly.
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posted on May, 4 2017 @ 06:17 AM
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a reply to: Pandaram

Stock up on Viagra, keep your hand on your wallet, and enjoy - tell her you'll marry her after "x" months so she will get her citizenship....



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