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He replaced Paul's aortic valve with an On-X mechanical valve
originally posted by: TNMockingbird
originally posted by: GoShredAK
originally posted by: Groot
a reply to: GoShredAK
You need to get out as soon as possible, like out of the house, and file for divorce. My ex faked domestic violence on me and it sucked. Your xanax is the least of your problems.
i did move out last nght, i actully just happened t get my old job tayt i love, bck the exact sme day....so im taying with the co-worker who is s good positive friend..hes got three kids......then i gotta move into a homeless shelter till i cn afford an aprtment....
I'm going to post this with the utmost respect and concern, first off.
*Your wife is a member here as well and having not heard both sides of the story I can only comment on what you've shared. I absolutely agree 100% that you leaving the situation is the best at the moment. When things become physical, it's usually gone too far already (past experience),
If I recall correctly, you've both suffered with addictions and I would hope that you are both (at some point perhaps after 'sobering up') willing to seek out professional help...if not for yourselves than for your child who is an innocent victim in this situation.
Children are the innocent victims in these situations that we adults create with our choices sometimes. I know this from going through my own situation that is involving a separation from their father.
Some folks have to hit bottom (and I mean the very cesspool of existence-barely) to see the light and want to fight to come back up and perhaps this situation will do it for both of you, for the sake of your son and each other as humans who love and care for one another and want the best for each other which I would hope to be living fulfilling, rich and happy lives and raising your child in the same environment.
Good luck to you both and please find some professional help, and if you are able...suggest your wife do the same through friends or family or whatever.
Be safe. Be smart. Get healthy.
Sending positive thoughts for all of you and please let us know when you are both okay.