posted on Mar, 2 2017 @ 11:24 PM
People always say women are complicated and hard to understand... I counter that men can sometimes be just as much!
What (I think) totally won me over with my husband, made me ready to follow him to the moon and back, or whatever, was that he didn't have such
He is simple that way, I want, or I don't want.
If I want, I will have.
I frigging love that simplicity and .... what I will sometimes call "pigheadedness". Because it can be a pain at times, but when he decides he wants
something, he WILL have it and NOTHING will stop him!
I still have a love letter he wrote to me once in which he stated clearly- "we don't have much to aid us, we have a lot fo challenges in front of us
(being from different countries and all...) but - We will make it. We WILL make a wonderful life together. That is the truth."
Now I had had lots of gushy love letters in the past, with fantasies of futures , but never from someone that was so singleminded and confident about
what he wanted and sure that it could be done.
I suggest that if a woman is attracted to a slightly ambiguous attraction by a guy, it is because she also is slightly unsure, and has use of the guy
in some way other than sincere love.
And as much as guys like to imagine they could be used for sex, it is not that common amongst women... it is more likely to be a some other reason.
But hell, if that's okay with you, there's no rules when it comes to human relating!