Explain This Term Women Use.....

She is single and has been burned by cheating bad boys and yet still says this...
"He is a super nice guy, but he is just not my type"

Now it could be a legitimate statement, but what is the woman really saying.

1) He is boring.
2) He is not attractive to her.
3) He is useless in bed.
4) She actually likes bad boys that treat her badly because she is secretly addicted to perpetual drama, but won't admit it to herself or her friends.
5) He is "friend zoned".
6) He is a Beta Male
7) He is not rich enough.
8) No chemistry.

a reply to: Blue_Jay33

"He is just not my type"

Could also be she means "personality" type. Some like the bad ass, some like it professional, some like it funny, adventurous, sporty, or whatever...you get the point.

This means you have to find out what she likes, including interests and her ideal companion type. If she cannot state this, then she really just wants to find as many alternate personalities before making a decision. Kind of like buying a car. Try it before you buy it.

a reply to: Blue_Jay33

Boring is probably the closest, woman are attracted to the alpha males and they are usually the rogue's, the naughty boy's and even the bad guy's, it is nothing personal from there point just a faulty psychological wiring left over from the day's of the hunter gatherers, best way to looking at it is if they don't like someone because of this switch then that person is probable better off without that person as a mate simply because they would probably be marrying a rung down on the evolutionary ladder by going for that.
Best finding a lady whom find's intellect attractive or one that like's to take the driving seat hey don't knock it.

a reply to: Blue_Jay33

You are confused, that is cliche more than anything else.

a reply to: Blue_Jay33

Could be any or all of the above...

usually its a lack of confidence issue though

a reply to: Skywatcher2011

You are closer than the poster above you and below, but if the female is older than 30, they probably have some idea of what they want by then.

a reply to: LABTECH767

You are also confused and oversimplifying it.

Translation - he not rich enough .

a reply to: Akragon

Nope.

a reply to: VengefulGhost

Really nope.

Id say trying to understand or make sense of anything women say to be an exercise in futility.

Theyre fricken awesome and I couldnt imagine life without them but they are all bat shyte crazy and for the most part illogical.

a reply to: Blue_Jay33

I'm going with number 3, if the bedroom antics are not up to standard there is a big chance she will be looking elsewhere.

Of course there are lots of factors but 3 is often a deal breaker.

a reply to: Blue_Jay33

It means theres nothing exotic or forbidden about him, he's the guy that minds the bags. But if he pretends to be gay he'll probably hit quite a few home runs

a reply to: IkNOwSTuff

You like the term bat shyte crazy, lol.

The overused and simple minded descriptions of what women supposedly want and why I have seen in this hilarious thread should point to why men have such difficulty with this entire topic.

originally posted by: hopenotfeariswhatweneed
a reply to: Blue_Jay33

I'm going with number 3, if the bedroom antics are not up to standard there is a big chance she will be looking elsewhere.

Of course there are lots of factors but 3 is often a deal breaker.

It is often a deal breaker, but not always.

a reply to: Blue_Jay33

It's whatever dude..

I'm only interested in girls that are interested in me.

It's always a savage mind connection. Deep..

Of course the way I am completely silly and completely serious. 65 years old and 5 years old.. At the same time..

That's my type because it's the only type that likes all of me.. So yea..

Plus girls my age know what they want. Not a ton of guess work involved.
Maybe if you are having issues you don't know what you like yet?

originally posted by: khnum
a reply to: Blue_Jay33

It means theres nothing exotic or forbidden about him, he's the guy that minds the bags. But if he pretends to be gay he'll probably hit quite a few home runs

No. I would not want a man to pretend to be gay. He can mind the bags. And the lawn mowing and the setting of the computer network. Doesn't need to have anything exotic or forbidden. It would be more fun, but there are lots of things that can make up for that.

originally posted by: Reverbs
a reply to: Blue_Jay33

It's whatever dude..

I'm only interested in girls that are interested in me.

It's always a savage mind connection. Deep..

Of course the way I am completely silly and completely serious. 65 years old and 5 years old.. At the same time..

That's my type because it's the only type that likes all of me.. So yea..

Plus girls my age know what they want. Not a ton of guess work involved.
Maybe if you are having issues you don't know what you like yet?

What you said is a lot more useful. It's not everything, but better than most posts here.

a reply to: reldra

Well the strategy has worked for me on several occasions and batting beyond way my level as well...yes I am incorrigible.

originally posted by: khnum
a reply to: reldra

Well the strategy has worked for me on several occasions and batting beyond way my level as well...yes I am incorrigible.

I can see you are. Tsk Tsk khnum, playing on the emotions of young girls who like the looks of One Direction.