originally posted by: sunkuong
a reply to: EnviousRobin
Nothing stopping you from putting your experience in here, regardless of it's own thread.
I wasn't sure if it was appropriate to share my experience here or if I needed to wait to pop it up into the correct board.
Sunday night my husband and I were walking one of our boyfriends out to his car (I am Polyamorous) when I saw this pale blue light/orb off in the
distance. I didn't notice it at first, and then I suddenly felt this urge to look into the sky. (It was probably around 22:00/10-ish?) It never
flickered like a star, it held it's place. It was so still it was erie. The light was so bright, I'm sure there was something behind it, at the
distance I was at it looked like looking into a high-beam on a car though. When everything behind it kind of washes out in the dark.
I want to ask; "Do you see that?" but even though the words ran through my head my mouth wouldn't open. It was at this time both my husband, and
boyfriend notice me looking up at the same and ask me if I'm alright. In the mere seconds it took them both to turn around to look at whatever it was
it was gone. Not in a 'poof' sort, but it zipped leaving a "tail" behind but it was solid and then gone all at once.
I didn't think much of it, lights are pretty common in my area. The next day my husband told me he saw lights in a boomerang/chevron pattern on his
way to work. I hadn't told him about what I saw the night previous, so it was a little weird for him to bring it up out of the blue like that.
Wednesday night we had our other boyfriend 'N' over to stay the night, my husband has to be at work by 5 and it's an hour commute so he's up at 3:30
to get ready. So he goes to bed early, and 'N' and I stay out in the living room to play old N64 games. This is where things get fuzzy; I remember
playing three different games but I don't really remember what was done? And I don't remember ever getting up to go to bed. I simply woke up thursday
morning in my own bed. I slept through the night, and awoke with my alarm.
Usually this wouldn't be a problem, but I suffer from extreme insomnia. I rarely sleep through a night, and it never happens without me waking up and
at least tossing and turning a little. I thought it was weird, but tried to pass it off. 'N' joined me and we ate breakfast and it was then that I
noticed a sharp pain in my back. Upon further inspection it almost looked/felt like a needle mark? And 'N' noticed he had three bruises in a row on
one of his breasts. (Both he and I are TransMan)
I waited for my husband to get home, and then asked him if he had experienced anything /weird/ the night before and he told me that he found it odd
that I'd returned to the bedroom so fast after leaving with 'N'. And I was kind of taken a back. I knew we'd played three games that I could remember,
(Mario Kart, Pokemon Stadium, and Pokemon Puzzle League) and were out for at least two hours. I told him to elaborate, because I'd stayed out of the
bedroom specifically to let him sleep.
He told me that I had returned, not but ten minutes or so after leaving and tried to proposition him for sex. For a normal married couple that'd be
fine, but I identify as A-Sexual. I'm not sexually active, and my husband knows this. He said it was weird because I "came in, bit him on the neck to
wake him, and then proceeded to make some lewd commentary". He said he'd declined, and I silently walked around the bed and started to dig around in
my bedside table without saying anything. It was at this point he /thinks/ he fell back asleep, a hard sleep like the one I experienced only to wake
up to his alarm.
But I have no memory of this. At all. As I said before all I remember is living room > waking up in bed. I don't know how I got there. Also; the
window to my bedroom and the one in the living room above the sofa where 'N' was sleeping were open when they had been closed the night prior. It's
getting cold outside, so I've been running the heat. I know the window in the living room where 'N' had been was locked, and both my bedroom and
living room are located on the second story of the house.
I felt really off/drowsy that day. Despite sleeping like I did.
Odd bit of information that may possibly be TMI, but possibly related; 'N' and I both started spotting that day as well, even though it wasn't either
of our times to do so. It stopped a few days later.
I've been fine beyond that, just... really confused. Trying to find answers but not sure where to start. :/
Edit: Also; Thank you ALL for being so kind and welcoming to me. I very much appreciate it.
edit on 1/3/2017 by EnviousRobin because: Adding a
Thank You to those who welcomed me while I was writing my post.