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originally posted by: geezlouise
a reply to: Abysha
Yes absolutely and also I feel like I never got to be a victim so when people talk about how they were once in the "victim" mentality but got out of it and now act like heros because they didn't want to be the "victim" anymore? I just feel pissed off anymore because what's wrong with being a victim when you're actually a victim? I say that's more than ok, it's appropriate. But people just act like you're a baby when you're legit just a victim of crime. And if you're getting raped and decide your not a victim? Then it's not rape.
So I just want to say... we should be allowed to be the victim. Yes. It's ok to be a victim. It's not ok but you know what I mean. It's appropriate. It's what happens sometimes. Let's stop denying it.
originally posted by: Edumakated
You dress like a hoe, you will get treated like one.
Im not saying that rape is ever justified, but if you go out in public looking like a two dollsr hooker, that is how you will be treated.
This goes in all walks of life. There is s reason for the saying "dress for success".
When i dressed like a corner thug, i got treated like one even though i was a nerd. I stoped dressing like a thug and surprise, i stopped being treated like one.