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originally posted by: Flyingclaydisk
Frankly, there is nothing but silence here from the OP.
Perhaps she has thought better of her initial post, or found additional information.
Maybe we should wait to see what she has to say.
originally posted by: Flyingclaydisk
a reply to: Bluesma
Two other thoughts...
You have over 6,000 posts here and nearly 6 years of membership. I would think your husband knows where you post your thoughts, and I wouldn't be at all surprised if he checks ATS periodically, if not actively. If he's truly up to something I would think this doubly true. To this end, you might be telegraphing your 'punch', so to speak. At very least, you are giving him a head's up to start covering his tracks.
On the other hand, if there really is a harmless explanation for this, and the above is true, he might well be none too happy about you jumping to this conclusion. I'll speak for myself when I say, if I read something like this posted by my wife I'd be plenty PISSED! In fact, I'd probably be so mad I might want to re-evaluate the relationship as a whole if my wife was so willing to S#-can the whole relationship and bolt over such a silly thing (were it not true).
Just sayin'...
originally posted by: Zeta Reticuli
I go on business trips all the time and I always share a room with my fellow colleague who may be going with me. TBH, mostly so we can drink and smoke weed aka party.
But of course, as most women do, you'd rather assume the worse and begin acting on it as if your sure of it.
Stop overreacting and talk to the man first, good Lord.
originally posted by: Bluesma
originally posted by: Zeta Reticuli
I go on business trips all the time and I always share a room with my fellow colleague who may be going with me. TBH, mostly so we can drink and smoke weed aka party.
But of course, as most women do, you'd rather assume the worse and begin acting on it as if your sure of it.
Stop overreacting and talk to the man first, good Lord.
Screw you. As I wrote from the start, I contacted him before posting here and asked him point blank.
It's not my fault if you don't read carefully. I never even said I was sure- I said I am concerned I need to consider how I will survive in case it is true.
originally posted by: Zeta Reticuli
originally posted by: Bluesma
originally posted by: Zeta Reticuli
I go on business trips all the time and I always share a room with my fellow colleague who may be going with me. TBH, mostly so we can drink and smoke weed aka party.
But of course, as most women do, you'd rather assume the worse and begin acting on it as if your sure of it.
Stop overreacting and talk to the man first, good Lord.
Screw you. As I wrote from the start, I contacted him before posting here and asked him point blank.
It's not my fault if you don't read carefully. I never even said I was sure- I said I am concerned I need to consider how I will survive in case it is true.
Get a job.
There. Problem solved.